Hello, I would like to state my opinion on this please. Please note that it is merely my opinion about my condition and as such, should not be considered medical advice.
I treat my diabetes as a condition. I go as far as to say, I have an intolerance to certain carbohydrates and amounts of them. I manage it by doing what works for me, which is controlling type and amount of sugars and carbohydrates I ingest and at what times in my day. I discovered new things to enjoy in life again, such as walking, swimming, horseriding etc and these all help my intolerance. There is a huge stress and emotional element to my condition, so I address that too. I maintain a weight that is good for me and sustain a lifestyle that suits me. Changing my lifestyle has allowed me to live a life that I am suited to and not to be a slave to life's temptations. I still absolutely LOVE food and that is half the problem, food is very addictive, but I have learnt to enjoy new foods and learnt that controlling what I eat helps me to be in control of my life too.
Labels are not helpful. People defy medical opinion every single day and I don't see why diabetes should be any different. In the early days of my condition, I listened and respected everything I was told to do by doctors and did it. The medical profession help save lives and serve their purpose, but there comes a day when we all have to find our own way and form our own opinions and that's what life's all about, really.
I strongly believe it's what works for YOU. And that is not necessarily right for the next person. There is no right or wrong or one size fits all.
Diabetes is a part of me. It does not define me.
*Please always follow your medical advice, but don't be afraid of doing your own research and find out what works for you. Be sensible.