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@Hollipop0014 I know where you're coming from. It sounds to me like you're going through quite a lot of different and difficult things. I've had type 1 for 32 years (since age 3) and have had certain periods of my life particularly around the teenage years where the enormity of having type 1 hits. The thought that you are entirely dependant on a medicine for your life and what on earth would you do if you couldn't get it? The fact that there's no escape not even an off day? I can say it does get better or rather times like that are few and far between and as you go through life you do accept more that everyone has different challenges and often unpredictable ones and you do your best with the hand you've been dealt.
I agree with
@CarbsRok about writing your feelings down. It really helps. The other thing though is that if you're not being listened to you can switch hospitals. I had an amazing consultant from the age of 8-15 until he retired but didn't like the next one. When I turned 16 I could have gone to the hospital where he also worked but chose another instead. If you're 15 you will need to discuss this with your parents. Also if you want to continue with the pump you need to make sure it's a hospital that will support and fund this.
I've only been on the pump for about 6 months and while it has done wonders for my numbers while giving me a lot more flexibility in what I can eat and how I live I'm still not convinced it's for me. I've read online about people who take pump holidays and that sounds a good idea in your case. I'm planning on having one once I'm past breast feeding (I'm pregnant now and in the early stages of breast feeding I've had horrible comas in the past) and then I'll take stock and decide whether it's for me or not. As
@CarbsRok says you can just use pens and take a break.
I've already had a discussion about what will happen after I give birth as they put you on a drip for this and I don't like having people having control over my diabetes when they don't have a clue. I was told they'd be really uncomfortable with me using a pump while in hospital to which I suggested I just inject and my consultant thought that was a good compromise.
I get where you're coming from entirely re doctors and nurses only caring about your numbers. My first meeting with my current consultant informed him telling me that hba1cs above 7 meant you were statistically more likely to have complications (mine was around 7.4). To which my answer was that statistics also showed people with hba1cs under 7 also got complications and that at the end of the day I was a person and not a statistic. We actually get on quite well now
I've had a number of consultants over the years and most of the decent ones have accepted the fact that at the end of the day the patient knows their diabetes best as they're the one who lives with it 24/7. In addition, the more humble ones also recognise that after 20 or 30 years of dealing with it you have more experience than most of them have. Saying which if you want to be in charge you do need to educate yourself as to how to do so, get confident with working out what works for you and what doesn't food and dosage wise and enable yourself to lead your own life.
I don't know if things have majorly changed since I was diagnosed or if no one ever read me the memo that you have to do what doctors and nurses say but the message I've always had over the years was it was up to me to work out how to deal with problems. The few times I've asked consultants for help with particular issues they have been unable to provide any guidance which has meant that they are not my first port of call.
People on this forum however are incredibly helpful......