That's what we are here for -support.
I need my fair share, as you know.
I think it just feels a little bit easier once you've typed it out on here. Not so alone.
My sister and mum are flapping about my sister housemove today but I cannot carry them. I have enough on my own plate, which they never want to know about.
I used to always put people before me. No surprise my diabetes went que wiff.
Life is settling down after our horrific move from the South to the North with a baby, 7yr old and 2 cars. The 2 vans had to fit in a garage, spare room, loft and us all in one bedroom. Relocating to the correct property wasnt easy. We are enjoying our new home and im just starting to settle down - diabetic wise.
It does get better! Different problems but not so skint.
I feel guilty not being available for my sister but she has more support than i got with my horrific move.
They are younger than me for a start. No children or pets and no diabetes.
Her and her husband are in their mid 30s and act like my kids. Eat kids treats and need carrying in anything they do. I wonder when they will grow up?
My kids need me more today, they should understand that but no......
I'll help when i can. I always do. i cannot help myself.
Ive realised one thing if anything happens to my mum. My 2 sisters arent mature enough to be of any use. It will be up to me to do the serious stuff. They both will be faffing with the flowers.
Why does the middle child feel they have to be the glue in the family? Or is that just mine?