New mummy and new type 1!

NatalieK

Newbie
Messages
2
Type of diabetes
Type 1
Treatment type
Insulin
Hi everyone,

I'm hoping I've come to the right place for some support. I'm 28 and was diagnosed with gestational diabetes last March when I was 20 weeks pregnant with my first baby.

I had to take huge doses of insulin and be exceptionally strict with my diet to keep my levels within the pregnancy targets but I coped by telling myself it was for the good of the baby and would only be temporary until she was born and then things would return to normal.

To cut a long story short things didn't return to normal and all and after several trips to the hospital and lots of tests I've been diagnosed with Type 1, currently controlled by insulin injections.

I'm devastated and feel completely lost with it all. It's hard enough adjusting to motherhood without this too. I can't seem to accept my diagnosis and find myself rebelling....

I've tried talking to the nurses but in that respect they've been very unhelpful. My levels are still quite erratic and I feel ill most days.

Any support much appreciated, I don't know any other diabetics.

Xx
 

Madmaureen

Well-Known Member
Messages
140
Type of diabetes
Type 1
Hi new mummy it will eventually sink in but it takes time especially with your beautiful bee baby. Try to relax a nd take each day a nd you will adjust dont punish yourself so hard u will conquer this as all type1s do!
I have been type1 for 47 years a nd have 2 beautiful sons which i never thought i would have in those days it was extremely hard but i had to conquer it like u will a nd like me it is second nature now a nd i would not want to be without it!
I have a strength which normal people do not have so try to think this way it will get you through byeee madmaureen
 
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Maggie/Magpie

Well-Known Member
Messages
279
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Treatment type
Tablets (oral)
Dislikes
Butternut Squash, Cabbage and confrontation.
Hi everyone,

I'm hoping I've come to the right place for some support. I'm 28 and was diagnosed with gestational diabetes last March when I was 20 weeks pregnant with my first baby.

I had to take huge doses of insulin and be exceptionally strict with my diet to keep my levels within the pregnancy targets but I coped by telling myself it was for the good of the baby and would only be temporary until she was born and then things would return to normal.

To cut a long story short things didn't return to normal and all and after several trips to the hospital and lots of tests I've been diagnosed with Type 1, currently controlled by insulin injections.

I'm devastated and feel completely lost with it all. It's hard enough adjusting to motherhood without this too. I can't seem to accept my diagnosis and find myself rebelling....

I've tried talking to the nurses but in that respect they've been very unhelpful. My levels are still quite erratic and I feel ill most days.

Any support much appreciated, I don't know any other diabetics.

Xx

Hi and welcome to the forum,

Everyone feels rather overwhelmed and shocked at their diagnosis. You've come to the right place for support and advise. You can ask anything here no matter how small or silly you may feel it is. There is a whole section for type one diabetics which you might find useful to read.

I will tag @daisy1 for you she will give you advise all new diabetics receive so have a read. You may also find it useful to look at the Low carb high fat diet information a lot of people on here follows it as carbohydrates turn to sugar when converted so best avoided.

Realise your no longer on your own there is a lot of us out here who have been in your position. Good luck
 

daisy1

Legend
Messages
26,457
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Treatment type
Tablets (oral)
Dislikes
Cruelty towards animals.
@NatalieK

Hello Natalie and welcome to the Forum :) As mentioned above, here is the Basic Information we give to new Members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask as many questions as you need to and someone will be able to help.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you'll find well over 147,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.

There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:
  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates
Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes.

Over 145,000 people have taken part in the Low Carb Program - a free 10 week structured education course that is helping people lose weight and reduce medication dependency by explaining the science behind carbs, insulin and GI.

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic.

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.

Take part in Diabetes.co.uk digital education programs and improve your understanding. They're all free.
  • Low Carb Program - it's made front-page news of the New Scientist and The Times. Developed with 20,000 people with type 2 diabetes; 96% of people who take part recommend it... find out why :)
  • Hypo Program - improve your understanding of hypos. There's a version for people with diabetes, parents/guardians of children with type 1, children with type 1 diabetes, teachers and HCPs.
 

Adam.froud

Active Member
Messages
42
Type of diabetes
Type 1
Treatment type
Insulin
Hello and welcome! I was diagnosed with T1 at the beginning of this year and have learnt so much from this forum already. It's a wealth of knowledge!
 

azure

Expert
Messages
9,780
Type of diabetes
Type 1
Treatment type
Pump
Hi @NatalieK :)

It's hard coping with a Type 1 diagnosis, especially if you have a baby. I recommend testing lots, and keeping things simple with meals eg have the same breakfast and lunch each day, or one of two or three 'safe' options where you know your blood sugar should be ok.

Also, keep plenty of hypo treatments and snacks near as looking after a young child can be totally unpredictable in terms of activity.

You say your levels are erratic - some of that will be expected due to the variable level of activity and you being recently diagnosed (your body may be making a tiny bit of its own insulin but in a random way). However, if you haven't been shown how to count carbs and adjust your insuljn for meals, push to have this explained. It's impossible to get good control without carb counting/adjusting. It's not hard to learn, and it frustrates me hugely when some newly diagnosed people are sent on their merry way without the tools to get good control and smoother sugars.

I recommend the book Think Like A Pancreas. It's the Type - 'bible' and is excellent.

I think @Diakat may have been in a similar situation to you, and there are other Type 1s here too who were also wrongly diagnosed as having Gestational Diabetes.

Finally, if you're breastfeeding, you'll need extra carbs for feeds to keep your blood sugar ok. Things like a digestive biscuit or two work and are quick. You'll have to experiment to find what you need.

The first few months are hard - very hard - but it does get easier, I promise.
 

Diakat

Expert
Retired Moderator
Messages
5,591
Type of diabetes
Type 1
Treatment type
Insulin
Dislikes
The smell of cigars
Hi @NatalieK
Yes, as @azure says a similar tale for me.

So, yes you will feel upset - everything has changed at a time that everyone says is one of the happiest. You are overwhelmed because firstly there is someone totally depending on you and secondly you are also totally depending on you to try and get this right!
Feeling upset about diabetes is normal and ok and you will come to accept it.
Levels will be erratic now for lots of reasons, breastfeeding, hormones, running round after baby, lack of sleep and if you are like I was just not being very interested in good for a while after birth (even though medics were unhelpfully tell I g me to eat cake, porridge turned out to be my saviour!)

Ask us anything you like and we can try to help. X