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Just wondering how everyone copes with confidence issues because of diabetes. I was always really confident and yet now struggle to socialise x
Like you RRB, I've given up. Now enjoying life as mad old spinster with a load of animals ha ha xxHi, your confidence and self esteem has been knocked a little. I'm sure it will get easier for you and that special someone will be out there, probably when you aren't even looking,
But, I have found it difficult, maybe it's a little easier for a man because, in general, women tend to be more understanding and caring when a medical condition is brought up.
Also it's down to other factors as well, personality and age too. I think I am going to give up, it's too complicated, hard work, frustrating and tiresome for me.
Good luck and all the best.
RRB
I've never let diabetes get in the way of dating, I'm sure in time your confidence will return @Happy talk
There's someone for everyone @Robinredbreast, some of the on-line comments are rather nasty and vindictive and best ignored IMHO, always remember it says more about them than it does about you.
Best wishes.
Like you RRB, I've given up. Now enjoying life as mad old spinster with a load of animals ha ha xx
Well at 47 I thought I was going on the scrapheap too, it's just negative thinking and yes it is a corny saying but love is not all about looks etc, it's a start maybe but it's more than that. I think living on my own for 24 years did the "non commitment" thing for me. It's just a personal thing for me, I'm too used to independence and would take a big leap to change.I don't either, but others do. Why go out with me, a 57 year old ( 3 years off of 60, but still slim, active and look younger than my age, I have been told this) when there's someone younger, with hopefully a longer longevity and either no or a minimal medical condition.
When someone makes a comment (on line) regarding sexual implications, Aids and HIV related, that's downright crass and nasty and can be soul destroying. I've been there, and got the T shirt..............................