Hi guys, firstly thanks for taking the time to read this post, i am new to the forums so appreciate all the help and advice.
I am not a diabetic, but married to a T2 diabetic, only diagnosed 3-4 months ago. She is only 28 and is on oral meds (gliclazide and metformin i believe). Although i cant fully appreciate what she is going through as im not diabetic myself i understand the sypmtoms, the causes and generally what is going on.
However, recently she has been very angry and very negative, flaring at the smallest of things, and to be honest any opportunity to shout at me even if its not worthy of an arguement!i am aware that having to come to terms with diabetes as a life long illness can make her angry. I have done my best to calm her but as she constantly tells me, i dont understand what its like. ive agreed to do as much as i can around the house as shes happiest when the house is tidy, and to exercise with her (even if its just regular walks), and to be much stricter on what she eats, which is she wants.
Her diabetes clinic is pretty useless - the usual diet advice and monitoring, but when she asked for help with the anger the response was pretty much that its part of the process, and no offer for help.
i guess all im asking for is a little advice and guidance as to how i can improve things so that she isnt constantly angry and flares at the smallest of things! I want to help her, and the last thing i want is to ruin our marriage but i do feel that if it continues this way that will happen - and not by me but by her!
i look forward to all your ideas.
Thanks guys!
I am not a diabetic, but married to a T2 diabetic, only diagnosed 3-4 months ago. She is only 28 and is on oral meds (gliclazide and metformin i believe). Although i cant fully appreciate what she is going through as im not diabetic myself i understand the sypmtoms, the causes and generally what is going on.
However, recently she has been very angry and very negative, flaring at the smallest of things, and to be honest any opportunity to shout at me even if its not worthy of an arguement!i am aware that having to come to terms with diabetes as a life long illness can make her angry. I have done my best to calm her but as she constantly tells me, i dont understand what its like. ive agreed to do as much as i can around the house as shes happiest when the house is tidy, and to exercise with her (even if its just regular walks), and to be much stricter on what she eats, which is she wants.
Her diabetes clinic is pretty useless - the usual diet advice and monitoring, but when she asked for help with the anger the response was pretty much that its part of the process, and no offer for help.
i guess all im asking for is a little advice and guidance as to how i can improve things so that she isnt constantly angry and flares at the smallest of things! I want to help her, and the last thing i want is to ruin our marriage but i do feel that if it continues this way that will happen - and not by me but by her!
i look forward to all your ideas.
Thanks guys!