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Hiya all. Recently, my husband was diagnosed with type 2 diabetics. For months leading up to his diagnosis he was showing symptoms. We both knew something was wrong but exactly waht, we reamined unsure. He's had the initial test and his level were 11.4. He has since seen his GP once and was basically told he's overweight, high colesterol and high blood pressure: Change your diet. He's recently gone in for another blood tests which is examining his liver as well as a water test.
To date, we have changed several things as far as diet goes. He now eats wheat bread, brown rice and margarine instead of butter. But as he is 45 and a lifetime of bad eating habits have taken hold he is struggling to break bad habits. Also, he has quit smoking (bee 6 days so far) but refuses to accept he needs exercise and a better diet. He is daily stating, 'I just fancy a but of bread and butter, I just fancy something sweet' so on and so forth. It has only been a few weeks and he is really doing my head in as he is unproactive in his health situation. I have been keeping a food diary (to his unawares) for him. I weight 8 stone and can eat whatever I want and he seems to be angry about that. 'well if you can have ice cream and chocolate, I can.' Seriously, he is 45. We have been married for 12 years now and this is indeed the most trying of things we have experienced. I watched him go from a happy, fun person to someone who wants to sleep every chance he gets, he's in a mood constantly (even thought his gp told him his moods shouldn't be affected) and he is so fed up it is ridiclous. Just going food shopping or leaving the flat is such a drama. He walks around like a zombie, making sarcy comments about others. I don't know who this person is.
I have repeatedly tried to assist him with his diet. I have always eaten a low fat, healthy diet, no sugary drinks, no butter no fried foods and for the most part, he has adapted well. I am american and he is british. He was raised on fry ups and cakes and I was rasied on salads. The thing is, he likes salads and will eat them when they are fixed for him but 3 hours later he's 'peckish'! As he is refusing to help himself, I am about ready to throw the towel in. I told him I am going to let his gp know about his attitude toward food and exercise and he just gives me looks. There will probably be an almightly row at the surgery next week but I don't care. I want my husband back and I want him to care about what he has to do to live a healthier life. He is refusing to accept that he must change. HELP, suggestions, comments? Sorry this is so long but I could write for England on this one. Cheers all..xx
To date, we have changed several things as far as diet goes. He now eats wheat bread, brown rice and margarine instead of butter. But as he is 45 and a lifetime of bad eating habits have taken hold he is struggling to break bad habits. Also, he has quit smoking (bee 6 days so far) but refuses to accept he needs exercise and a better diet. He is daily stating, 'I just fancy a but of bread and butter, I just fancy something sweet' so on and so forth. It has only been a few weeks and he is really doing my head in as he is unproactive in his health situation. I have been keeping a food diary (to his unawares) for him. I weight 8 stone and can eat whatever I want and he seems to be angry about that. 'well if you can have ice cream and chocolate, I can.' Seriously, he is 45. We have been married for 12 years now and this is indeed the most trying of things we have experienced. I watched him go from a happy, fun person to someone who wants to sleep every chance he gets, he's in a mood constantly (even thought his gp told him his moods shouldn't be affected) and he is so fed up it is ridiclous. Just going food shopping or leaving the flat is such a drama. He walks around like a zombie, making sarcy comments about others. I don't know who this person is.
I have repeatedly tried to assist him with his diet. I have always eaten a low fat, healthy diet, no sugary drinks, no butter no fried foods and for the most part, he has adapted well. I am american and he is british. He was raised on fry ups and cakes and I was rasied on salads. The thing is, he likes salads and will eat them when they are fixed for him but 3 hours later he's 'peckish'! As he is refusing to help himself, I am about ready to throw the towel in. I told him I am going to let his gp know about his attitude toward food and exercise and he just gives me looks. There will probably be an almightly row at the surgery next week but I don't care. I want my husband back and I want him to care about what he has to do to live a healthier life. He is refusing to accept that he must change. HELP, suggestions, comments? Sorry this is so long but I could write for England on this one. Cheers all..xx