I don't do all inclusive holidays either. I don't drink that much alcohol. None during the day and a few beers only in the evening. I usually book holidays with breakfast included as I don't eat in the morning at home, but I do eat breakfast on holiday and I liked the tropical fruits, fresh mango, papaya, melon and papaya which are available. But as I can't eat those now I will probably not book holidays with breakfast included in future.
When I am somewhere hot I don't usually have lunch, maybe just a snack or sandwich in the afternoon, and I like to get out of the hotel in the evening and try different places to eat, where there is some entertainment, preferably live music.