Firstly, I'm T2, diet controlled, and provided I can manage to keep a handle on things, I am extremely unlikely to be referred into the hospital service. I am a massive supporter of the NHS, as we live for a proportion of the year overseas where I witness every day the impact of little or no public healthcare. Our NHS is underfunded and has massive issues in some areas, but it is there when the chips are down. Can anyone imagine how it must feel to receive a catastrophic diagnosis (having saved to see a doctor and have tests), and have absolutely no clue how you will pay for the necessary treatment? This happens every day in other countries.
I do empathise with UK GPs who are being spread incredibly thinly these days, dealing with one "epidemic" or another, whether it be diabetes, stress, back pain, obesity, lipids or whatever. Keeping an in-depth knowledge of all those subjects must be a nightmare and nigh on impossible for someone who also wants to have a life. But, I have less sympathy at the Speciality Registrar or Consultant level. Those people have chosen to work in this specialism, unlike GPs who might have been lumbered with the role practise title of "specialist diabetic doctor", without specialist training or even interest.
In my view, if I am referred for a specialist opinion, or to a specialist clinic, I expect advanced knowledge in that area.
Like Tim, I treat all my appointments like business meetings, and go with my objectives clear in my mind and my preparation done. To find someone apparently disinterested in my issues would really concern me. Yes, I would be annoyed for me, but even more deeply concerned for those less able to do their prep or make their cases so robustly. How do they ever move towards a better life?
I don't know how
@tim2000s feels about the chances of SR he saw yesterday making a positive and robust case for his pump request, but I have to say, based upon what he wrote, my hopes wouldn't be buoyed. Tim, I really do hope I'm wrong there.