Again, I didn't actually suggest that those in the 'my' 3rd category ..I put ???? Of course,that could imply that they don't deserve my own support ( not that my support is worth more than anyone else)..but those who help themselves seem to react better to help. I do appreciate I that I may have touched a nerve ( I said as much). Any weight loss is a great result and you've lost the weight far quicker ( I will assume) than putting in on, which is important and deserves respect!