Just out of denial

LisaHug

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Hello Everyone,
I was diagnosed just over a month ago. I was seen by my doctor, given metformin and sent on my merry way. My first response was to just pretend it wasn't happening. This was dead easy as I have had to wait over a month to get an appointment with a diabetic nurse, I'm due to see her next week. I suppose in a way this has been good as it has given me time to do some research and reflect on how things may well pan out for me. I know I can't stay in denial and I have to take control of this. What is really frustrating is that I was diagnosed after I had made some significant changes to my lifestyle and had lost over a stone and a half! I have a lovely and supportive husband and family but I feel I need support from people who know just what I'm experiencing at the moment. I've spent a while cruising this forum and have decided tonight to 'take the plunge'. I'd really appreciate your support.
 

Liam1955

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@LisaHug - Hello and Welcome to the Forum. I will tag @daisy1 who will provide you with some basic information that all newbies receive on the Forum. Have a read and ask as many questions as you want.:)
 

julie56

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Hi Lisa - Welcome to the forum, I'm sure you will find it beyond helpful in getting control of your diabetes. It takes a while to come to terms with being diagnosed, there is a lot to learn - but also plenty of time. Initially, the obvious thing to do is cut out any sugary food and drink to up the exercise. Drink plenty of water, eat freshly prepared food and try to avoid carby food such as bread, pasta, potatoes and rice. Before long you will be feeling a whole lot happier and fitter.
 
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why can't everyone get on........
full support here @LisaHug :)
well done for being brave and posting your story -- this place is great for learning loads and getting yourself on track.

all the best !!
 
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daisy1

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@LisaHug

Hello Lisa and welcome to the forum :) Here is the information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask as many questions as you like and someone will be able to help.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find over 150,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes-and-whole-grains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

LOW CARB PROGRAM:
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/low carb program


Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to bloodglucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 

lucyb08

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Type of diabetes
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Hello Everyone,
I was diagnosed just over a month ago. I was seen by my doctor, given metformin and sent on my merry way. My first response was to just pretend it wasn't happening. This was dead easy as I have had to wait over a month to get an appointment with a diabetic nurse, I'm due to see her next week. I suppose in a way this has been good as it has given me time to do some research and reflect on how things may well pan out for me. I know I can't stay in denial and I have to take control of this. What is really frustrating is that I was diagnosed after I had made some significant changes to my lifestyle and had lost over a stone and a half! I have a lovely and supportive husband and family but I feel I need support from people who know just what I'm experiencing at the moment. I've spent a while cruising this forum and have decided tonight to 'take the plunge'. I'd really appreciate your support.
I am still very much in denial - I cant help it I seem to have a stubbourn head in sand approach to it -- and I know thats quite bad as my morning blood is usually between 8-11 and afternoon evenings always between 11-18 ( im not sure if this is bad or not but reading some of these posts it might be!)- cant seem to make myself care -- I hardly ever remember to take my metformin ( supposed to take it twice a day - remember once if lucky ) .. I know im being sackless but I dont seem to care
 

Mike d

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Anything in double figures is a concern. 8 and under is far more preferable.

Put the metformin for the day on a windowsill or somewhere obvious .....
 

LisaHug

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Type of diabetes
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I am still very much in denial - I cant help it I seem to have a stubbourn head in sand approach to it -- and I know thats quite bad as my morning blood is usually between 8-11 and afternoon evenings always between 11-18 ( im not sure if this is bad or not but reading some of these posts it might be!)- cant seem to make myself care -- I hardly ever remember to take my metformin ( supposed to take it twice a day - remember once if lucky ) .. I know im being sackless but I dont seem to care
Please care lucyb08, you are worth it! I so get where you are coming from, it is hard but the way I got through my denial was to think that this diagnosis is an opportunity to ensure a long and healthy life. Years ago they only diagnoses diabetes when it had really started to do damage. We are all at a real advantage. I have been feeling really low about my diagnosis but now feel strong now I have 'named the beast'. Be kind to yourself Lucyb08. Post again!
 
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LisaHug

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Anything in double figures is a concern. 8 and under is far more preferable.

Put the metformin for the day on a windowsill or somewhere obvious .....
Hi Mike,
Can you share your weight loss strategies? I've about 3 stone to lose (and then some - but baby steps!!) I'm currently limiting carbs and going for fresh home prepared stuff. With the occasional glass of white wine I'm afraid. Any tips would be gratefully received.
 

magsiesss

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Hi Lisa, I am a newbie to the forum too as I was diagnosed 1st April this year.

I have told my doctor that I won't be diabetic in the future - not sure if he believes me, but its something to stive towards.

Like you I was in a daze for a while, but fortunately my doc gave me a meter and am on a repeat prescription of strips which is brilliant for helping you to see you are doing well ... its really not as frightening as it first seemed.

I was measured at 23.5 mmol (?) on my first day - the doc was not happy but since then my blood sugar is around 5-6.5mmol. So far, its the testing that has helped me ... so dont give up, you're worth it x
 
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Geordie_P

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Brilliant!
You should take encouragement from how far you've come, coz that's a pretty inspiring 6 month's worth of work on your part:)
 

KezG

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@LisaHug ... What a difference you've made in six months. Well done! :)