Romola said:
This forum isn't helping me much.
I find much of it negative, and it confuses people.
There are too many spurious experts who think they have all the answers based on their own anecdotal experiences.
I won't be coming here again.
Hi Romola,
I understand where you are coming from and I do agree that some people think that they have found the answer to everybody else's management. Spurious experts indeed. Because they manage their own does not mean they can manage other people's.
Some people get passionate about what they see as the answer to every dilemma that a diabetic voices here. I often wonder if they stop and read their post through before they submit it.
We cannot manage all diabetics only ourselves and the advice that most give is just that advice. Anyone looking for answers has to sift through it all and find what will work for them. There is no blueprint to follow and it is trial and error. The same is true of blood sugar levels, everyone has to have a level that suits them and not think it is a competition to, get the lowest.
Medication is also something that some other Type 2's see as failure and this really gets my goat. Taking meds is not a sign of defeat it just means that your pancreas is growing older at a faster rate than the rest of you. It is typically the high blood sugars that do the damage and not usually the meds.
I am always interested in your posts and think you always give a balanced view of Type 2.
Opinions are just that, opinions and for people to over-react and close their mind to other perspectives when they are challenged says more about that person than the challenger. It is the best way forward as we all can learn from each other. Nobody here is an expert. Some are in control of their diabetes by various methods but that does not mean that it is the answer for everyone else or that they will not face problems in the future. That is the nature of the "beast".
Keep the posts coming Romola.
Take care,
Catherine.