Anger

Vyewalker

Newbie
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2
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Hi all,

I was told I am type 2 diabetic 3 weeks ago and wondered if anyone suffers with anger as a symptom of it. I'm not angry that I have it, I can fix it, just general anger for real apparent reason. I've felt like this for some time now and as I've probably been suffering undiagnosed I wonder if this is part of the reason (or I'm just a niserable old git).

Would be good to hear from someone who can relate so I know I'm not alone in this and any advice?!

Cheers
 

Jaylee

Oracle
Retired Moderator
Messages
18,225
Type of diabetes
Type 1
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Insulin
Hi @Vyewalker ,

A warm welcome to the forum.
Higher running blood sugar levels (a syptom of diabetes.) can trigger these emotions.
There are plenty of people's accounts similar to what you described.
Plenty can relate. ;)

Have you currently been prescribed any diabetes medication?

I'll tag in @daisy1 .
 

JRTwalker

Well-Known Member
Messages
67
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Yep, took me a while to join the dots and reconcile what I had seen in my behaviour over past year. General irritability with people and irrational feeling of some despair over some trivial concerns, most especially at work. Diagnosis of T2 was in a sense a realisation of what medics had failed to recognise for quite a while now.
 
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Nidge247

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Messages
205
Type of diabetes
LADA
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Diet only
Hi @Vyewalker

Yes, more so irritability when BGs were high rather than out and out anger - but everyone deals with it differently.

Now with good control, all those things are well in the past
 
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ChrisTeapot

Member
Messages
13
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Hi, yes angry like why me, why did no-one notice earlier, why didn't I go and see someone earlier when perhaps I knew I might have it with thirst etc.

Stick with it though it will get better. As well as my medication I started very low carb six months ago with the help of my missus and I feel physically far far better now and in control even though I do have bad days.
 

Vyewalker

Newbie
Messages
2
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Thanks, all!! Maybe I need to get some coping mechanisms in place. Mostly internal rage/anger, but finding more and more it makes me distance myself from people/situations. Guess I'll learn as I go along this new path.
 

daisy1

Legend
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26,457
Type of diabetes
Type 2
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Tablets (oral)
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Cruelty towards animals.
@Vyewalker

Hello Vyewalker and welcome to the Forum :) Here is the Basic Information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask questions when you need to and someone will be able to help.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you'll find well over 235,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.

There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:
  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates
Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes.

Over 145,000 people have taken part in the Low Carb Program - a free 10 week structured education course that is helping people lose weight and reduce medication dependency by explaining the science behind carbs, insulin and GI.

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic.

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.

Take part in Diabetes.co.uk digital education programs and improve your understanding. They're all free.
  • Low Carb Program - it's made front-page news of the New Scientist and The Times. Developed with 20,000 people with type 2 diabetes; 96% of people who take part recommend it... find out why
  • Hypo Program - improve your understanding of hypos. There's a version for people with diabetes, parents/guardians of children with type 1, children with type 1 diabetes, teachers and HCPs.
 

Lord Midas

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Messages
148
Type of diabetes
Type 1
Treatment type
Insulin
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Idiots. Morons. Flat Earthers. Religious fanatics. Trump. Bigots. Misogynists. And other assorted bad types.
Hi @Vyewalker,
There was a time when I felt like Harry Potter when talking to Sirius when he said: "I just feel angry all the time" :mad:

My GF is my saviour though. She has this calming effect on me. Alas, I can't give you my GF to keep you calm.

However, I can tell you that since moving onto a low carb diet (almost no carbs for most of the day) I've now had great BG control. And from this, my anger has really calmed down to the point where I'm pretty Zen about stuff.

I'm a pretty big guy and I'm sure I scare people when I get angry. I always keep it inside though, but it's like you can tell when someone is raging on the inside. I really don't have that so much anymore. And it's great.

Cut the carbs, get BG under control, and you'll feel so much better. :)
 

walnut_face

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Messages
1,748
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Treatment type
Diet only
@Vyewalker Very normal. It fact good news, as you are feeling anger it means you have got past the denial stage, next is the reluctant acceptance, and from what you have posted a desire to roll up your sleeves and get stuck in to fix it :)
 

Enclave

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Retired Moderator
Messages
2,602
Type of diabetes
Treatment type
Diet only
I used to be angry for no reason .. blamed everything from full moon to the wife doing everything wrong .. then found it was just my the my blood sugars was higher than it should be. I am back to my normal self now blood sugar is under control.
 

jennykorpes

Newbie
Messages
3
Type of diabetes
Prefer not to say
Treatment type
Diet only
When I first was learn about it I feel anger too for no reason.. Gym helped me to make my anger into strength to become healthier and fit at least.
 

CHIET1

Well-Known Member
Messages
55
Type of diabetes
Type 1.5
Treatment type
Insulin
Dislikes
Hyperglycemia, hpyos, fake food!
If my bs is high, I can flip at the smallest thing! Even certain noises when high will infuriate me. I have found best way to manage is keep the bs in normal ranges 4-6 mmol/l and then I don't experience these emotions as much. LC is the only way I have found this possible in my experience. Also if my bs is low 3's or below I get irritated very quickly!
 

Element137

Well-Known Member
Messages
128
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Irritability looks like a very common theme, on reflection of the year leading up to being diagnosed I must have been a nightmare to live with, I was constantly irritable, slightest thing would produce ridiculous over reactions - the other thing I have noticed is I have a very vague feeling of memory for 12-18 months leading up to diagnosis - almost like not being present, very strange - like when you are driving and cant remember reaching a destination - it does however get better, after 8 months of control I feel better in many ways, calmer, more rational, you should never underestimate the impact of chemical imbalance, whether diabetes or other conditions, on the function of the brain - getting control of your BS level is a massive step forward - plus - so many other positive outcomes, weight loss, regained fitness, general feeling of good health - it can be turned around - you can choose your outcomes with this condition.
 

lowedb

Well-Known Member
Messages
254
Type of diabetes
Type 2
Treatment type
Tablets (oral)
Yep. The same here. I was starting to get brain fog too so I was angry at always seeming to tired to think. The good news is that five months on and with significantly improved numbers, I'm feeling a lot calmer.