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Hi, I would just like some advice if possible. My father, now in his late 60s has been a type 1 diabetic for the last 40 years and my whole life. He'd have occasional hypos during my childhood and adolescence and we got used to spotting the signs and trying to help. Sometimes they'd be bad ones and we'd be worried for him. But he never really liked to talk about them afterwards, almost as if he was ashamed he'd had them.
The problem now is that since he retired about 4 years ago, his hypos have become more frequent and more severe, several involving ambulance call outs as my mum has found him and been unable to bring him back.
It's almost like the loss of routine has thrown him off. It's becoming a constant worry for my mum who now worries about leaving him alone for any length of time. He is still not keen on talking about these hypos which is frustrating as they are affecting the whole family now but he gets very defensive whenever the topic is brought up.
I wondered if anyone has any advice on how to broach this and how to try and get through to him. We're worried for him but me and my other siblings are similarly concerned for my mum who isn't in the best of health either and struggles to deal with his hypos.
Thank you!
The problem now is that since he retired about 4 years ago, his hypos have become more frequent and more severe, several involving ambulance call outs as my mum has found him and been unable to bring him back.
It's almost like the loss of routine has thrown him off. It's becoming a constant worry for my mum who now worries about leaving him alone for any length of time. He is still not keen on talking about these hypos which is frustrating as they are affecting the whole family now but he gets very defensive whenever the topic is brought up.
I wondered if anyone has any advice on how to broach this and how to try and get through to him. We're worried for him but me and my other siblings are similarly concerned for my mum who isn't in the best of health either and struggles to deal with his hypos.
Thank you!