My partner has type 1 diabetes and I'm so fed up of medical professionals dismissing how Diabetes affects the whole family and not just the main sufferer....
I've struggled with the effects diabetes has had on our family for the last 9 years as in I dread every test result, the constant hospital visits, GP phone calls, the constant changes in medication/ routine whilst juggling 2 girls who'll sometimes say they're scared of their dad when his sugar levels are all over the place, having to deal with friends who dont understand the reason why he becomes snappy is due to his sugar levels and when they're stable he's the most loving, caring person
Just lately he's developed ED and needed a battery of tests on his kidneys due to not seeing a consultant for 3 years due to taking place in the Diasend trial which has made me feel quite anxious and I'm also having to provide a lot of reassurance that just because he has ED it doesn't mean I'm going to run off with another man..... even though I do feel like Simon deserves better as in someone who can better cope with the diabetes
On top of this I also have guilt because what right have I got to feel like this I'm not the one with diabetes which makes me feel more down..... I did ask the diabetic nurses if there was any support groups available but as yet I haven't had a response but accidentally stumbled across this forum
I apologize if this offends anyone as that isn't my intention.... I'd feel even more guilt if it did as I know diabetics have it tough
I've struggled with the effects diabetes has had on our family for the last 9 years as in I dread every test result, the constant hospital visits, GP phone calls, the constant changes in medication/ routine whilst juggling 2 girls who'll sometimes say they're scared of their dad when his sugar levels are all over the place, having to deal with friends who dont understand the reason why he becomes snappy is due to his sugar levels and when they're stable he's the most loving, caring person
Just lately he's developed ED and needed a battery of tests on his kidneys due to not seeing a consultant for 3 years due to taking place in the Diasend trial which has made me feel quite anxious and I'm also having to provide a lot of reassurance that just because he has ED it doesn't mean I'm going to run off with another man..... even though I do feel like Simon deserves better as in someone who can better cope with the diabetes
On top of this I also have guilt because what right have I got to feel like this I'm not the one with diabetes which makes me feel more down..... I did ask the diabetic nurses if there was any support groups available but as yet I haven't had a response but accidentally stumbled across this forum
I apologize if this offends anyone as that isn't my intention.... I'd feel even more guilt if it did as I know diabetics have it tough