My daughter (aged 12) was diagnosed nearly 2 weeks ago with type 1. We have been home from hospital for a week. She has gone back to school and is coping remarkably, she has been a real trouper. I am still adjusting - I did a lot of crying the first day and still have bouts of “ oh ****, this is our life now”. But on the whole I think we’re doing ok!
I would love to hear from other mums/parents about the early days of diagnosis and what it all means. I am a working single mum and was looking forward to my daughter enjoying some independence this year, catching the schoo bus with her older sister etc and me being able to work longer hours, but now that feels like it has been taken away a bit. I am feeling like I have to reign her in just when she is growing up and developing her independence. How worried/careful do I have to be? Is this the end of my life just as I was getting some back? My daughter so far has shown incredible maturity over it all - she understands it all well, is nailing carb counting and does all her own injections and blood checks. We are hopefully getting a CGM shortly. I am struggling a bit with how much this needs to rule our life or not??!
I would love to hear from other mums/parents about the early days of diagnosis and what it all means. I am a working single mum and was looking forward to my daughter enjoying some independence this year, catching the schoo bus with her older sister etc and me being able to work longer hours, but now that feels like it has been taken away a bit. I am feeling like I have to reign her in just when she is growing up and developing her independence. How worried/careful do I have to be? Is this the end of my life just as I was getting some back? My daughter so far has shown incredible maturity over it all - she understands it all well, is nailing carb counting and does all her own injections and blood checks. We are hopefully getting a CGM shortly. I am struggling a bit with how much this needs to rule our life or not??!