Hi
@Katiejinks14, As a T1D, not as health professional advice or opinion:
I was having similar problems with my diabetes clinic doctors at the same age,
47 years ago !!
I think hospital systems breed these people, and I wonder which
dinosaur eggs they hatch from !!
And my diabetes would flare up on the days just before until the days after I had my appointment
or 'disappointment with whichever dinosaur'.
The nurses in the clinic on the other hand were marvellous.
No DSNs back then. If I was a cartoonist what fun I could have had !!!
Being stubborn and not wanting to let the turkeys grind me down
I started asking questions like:
" Right, so things are upset with my diabetes a day or two before I come to see you until the day or two afterwards.
What do YOU think is the cause and what I should do about it. ? "(I now realise in hindsight that this was like
saying,
'If he and his like are part of the problem, they are part of the solution').
In blunt Aussie fashion. "You are part of my problem, mate, so earn your keep and help me solve it".
Warning: But not everyone responds well to this !!!
Sometimes this would end up like a game of ping-pong;
Dr:"Your results are not good, you have to do better",
Me: "Well can you help me with this? I have kept records and shown them to you. I cannot figure out
what is happening. And I do not want to end up having to go to hospital'.
Dr: "No, that is up to you"
Me: "Well if I end in hospital, is that what you would like me to say your advice was"?
Dinosaurs have thick hides though and the next one might have similar brain dimensions.
I ask my health team these days to work out some plans with me: a sick day plan, when to ring for help plan,
,, when going to hospital is best; how do and when do I need to measure/check for ketones?
And as another person has written: What to do /what adjustments to make for monthly cycles .
These are what my health team's job and purpose is about. Helping me to solve problems and stop other
ones happening.
I have no qualms now about heading to hospital if I have done everything I can to get things under control.
I do not wish to be a sad statistic, nor should you, just because a member of your health team is behaving like a cranky parental figure or pre-historic cockroach!!!!!
I reckon my health team will be dead scared if I had to go to hospital because they had not been supportive.
Every so often the clinic doctor I met was a real gem. I could sit down and work through things, come up with a plan - which what health teams these days are supposed to be about. My current endo and DSN are fantastic and can rightly bask in the glory that my diabetes is sometimes gold star quality. ( but I have got to watch that all of this does not change my hat size")!!!
I get it, they are busy, stressed and maybe take it out on patients, I have seen it a thousand times.
You have mentioned that your BSLs can be really on target.
That is wonderful. Getting them to help you with where things go wrong, getting them to help 'own' the problems and solve them with you. They are no longer playing in the sandpit.
As adults us T1Ds have been handed extra responsibilities. Not easy.
Nobody asked me if I wanted to be a full-time pilot for part of my pancreas gland!! And where is the flight manual??
But: with some humour; with some striving to keep well; analysing what is happening ( where is Sherlock Holmes when he is needed)?; posting on this site (some of us have made enough mistakes to help others with not making them)!!!; remembering that there are good and not-so-good Diabetes Gremlins about that ensure that what works one day works the next and then not on the next next, is all part of this life!!!
Bestest Wishes and please keep posting:
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