Hi
@Jed.s ,
Diabetes affecting sex life... Thanks for the tag
@Diakat .
Thinking back a number of years...
Wow, what can I say.. Been "caught out" a few times, not just with hypos.. A partner's ex boy friend showed up once proclaiming undying love which killed ours.
Another's' flat mate knocked on my room door at a party we "retired" from at mine needing the keys to theirs..
Lol, I was courting a stable hand once & a farmer strolled in...
Sex isn't like the portrayals in the "adult industry." Lol, it's more like a French farce sometimes. A good sense of humour helps.
It is meant to be fun.. Or an expressin of love. Both parties are meant to be respectful of the other. (It works both ways.)
So, where are your issues, is it just the hypos? (Yep, disappointing when it happens & will take the wind out of the sails. On any occasion.)
You had a thread regarding alcohol? Which can affect the will to perform as well as causing rapid drops in BG whilst on insulin.. There was a mention from you regarding "weed?" Sorry buddy, that can cause a loss of interest pretty quickly no matter how loveley the object of desire... Out can affect differen genders differently, so can amphetimine based drugs...
I commiserate & empathise that at your age it is difficult to talk. Partners at the same age tend to have similar issues with their own "hang ups." You are all young & meant to be having no fuss fun.. Nah, big expectations. You'll all work it out.
The reality sometimes....??!!! it's an "experiment" & so it is as we get older...
So now I'm middle aged & married.. My wife has the same privelidge these days..She's "the one..." (No doubt either way.) Hypos for me still can happen. The "planets" don't align all the time as the porn industry with it's agenda leads us all (whatever gender.) to believe...
That's my two cents..
I've never dealt with sex like I'm about to get behind the wheel of a car...
@Mel dCP .Sex never potentially killed a school bus que of kids... A condom at least, stopped them being mine.
What can I say. It's all as it ever was, "complicated." But still fun for both of us....