I contacted the nurse team today to ask for advice and they have requested my libre details and said to get the carbsandcals app. Which I've done.
I'm on the waiting list to see a dietician who will advise on ratios. So got to try to make sense of it myself for a little while.
Sounds like you haven't started adjusting your insulin to what you eat yet. Why not try to learn that before deciding to go on a restrictive diet?
I think there's an online course in the UK,
https://www.bertieonline.org.uk/ . I don't have experience with it myself but it could be helpful to you.
Stressing myself out by not wanting to eat if above 7 on my libre. Then I let it go too low which leads to feeling rough and a spike a bit later.
You seem to have set the bar very high for yourself by not wanting to eat when above 7. When you get more comfortable calculating the dose you need for the food you'll eat you will be able to figure out how much to inject before eating and end up at a reasonable number most of the time, especially with the help of the Libre.
I feel your fear of eating when being relatively high. For me those are the perfect moments for a lower carb meal like veggies and meat, so I can eat without paying too much attention to my diabetes.
Have read that low carb avoids the spikes. But I fear that not eating the things I like, and cutting out a beer may make me even more grumpy. Ha.
Yes, eating lower carb can help. But so can learning to dose for the food you like, or something in between!
Personally, I love a beer or four, so I've made sure to learn how to dose for it, despite often choosing lower carb foods
Please don't be scared of food or higher numbers, instead try to get every bit of information from them to be able to adjust food, insulin, timing of insulin, exercise, even the time you take to finish your beer until you get it right!
And remember, this is a marathon, not a sprint, no need to get it right the first time. Seeing a high number when you don't expect it is a learning opportunity to make you think about what to change next time, it's not something like a bad grade.