Hi
I've joined your forum because one of my best mates has been diabetic for the last 15 or so years, and I urgently need some advice please.
A little background might help you understand the moral dilemma I, and his other friends now face.
Brian has, in the last couple of years, let his management of his condition slip I would wager, horrendously. I know its easy for a non-diabetic like myself to judge, but we are VERY worried about his health now.
In years gone by, he would have the occasional hypo, and we could get him back in play by giving him chocolate and sugary tea. Nowadays, he is having hypos very frequently, and having read some of the posts in your forum, I believe he isnt "hypo-aware"?
Additionally, the nature of the hypos has I think got worse. He didnt use to shake, have fits or convulsions, or have bad balance. Previously in the past, it would take 20-30 min for him to recover. Now it can take well over and hour, and sometimes longer.
The dilemma is this. The new rules as I understand on driving, will probably mean he would lose his license, and therefore his job. We dont want that to happen obviously. But.....
I dont want him to have a hypo at the wheel and kill himself and/or others.
What do we, as his friends do? He wont talk about it with us. I think he is still in some kind of denial about his condition, and refuses to acknowledge it with us.
I want to know if having constant hypos will eventually lead to more serious problems, and if so, should we call an ambulance when he has these attacks? (If we do that, he loses license I presume?)
Im sorry for long question, I'm gutted its come to this, I just want to help my friend.
His lifestyle is not good, bad diet, drinks too much at times, and smokes a lot of cannabis/marajuana. He is in his late 40s.
Thanks a million in advance
Peter
I've joined your forum because one of my best mates has been diabetic for the last 15 or so years, and I urgently need some advice please.
A little background might help you understand the moral dilemma I, and his other friends now face.
Brian has, in the last couple of years, let his management of his condition slip I would wager, horrendously. I know its easy for a non-diabetic like myself to judge, but we are VERY worried about his health now.
In years gone by, he would have the occasional hypo, and we could get him back in play by giving him chocolate and sugary tea. Nowadays, he is having hypos very frequently, and having read some of the posts in your forum, I believe he isnt "hypo-aware"?
Additionally, the nature of the hypos has I think got worse. He didnt use to shake, have fits or convulsions, or have bad balance. Previously in the past, it would take 20-30 min for him to recover. Now it can take well over and hour, and sometimes longer.
The dilemma is this. The new rules as I understand on driving, will probably mean he would lose his license, and therefore his job. We dont want that to happen obviously. But.....
I dont want him to have a hypo at the wheel and kill himself and/or others.
What do we, as his friends do? He wont talk about it with us. I think he is still in some kind of denial about his condition, and refuses to acknowledge it with us.
I want to know if having constant hypos will eventually lead to more serious problems, and if so, should we call an ambulance when he has these attacks? (If we do that, he loses license I presume?)
Im sorry for long question, I'm gutted its come to this, I just want to help my friend.
His lifestyle is not good, bad diet, drinks too much at times, and smokes a lot of cannabis/marajuana. He is in his late 40s.
Thanks a million in advance
Peter