Struggling to adjust

LeaLea

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Hi I am 32 tyears old mother of two children aged 5 and 2 I was diagnosed just over a year ago and have just come through a process of denial where I stopped taking my meds. I realise what i did was stupid etc and have had severe tellings off from the dpoctor and am now back on track taking all my meds and doing what I can to get my sugars down. This morning my fasting sugars were 8.9 a far cry from just before xmas at 12.
I keep hearing about carbing and am interested in hearing more about this.
I struggle to exercise due to time. I have a 5 year old and a 2 year old. My 5 yr old is at school but my 2 yr old is with me all day and then I go out to work at a call centre in the evening when they go to be there just does not seem to be 5 ons free to do anything. I have struggled with my weight all my life and have recently managed to lose 1 stone however want to lose another 3 at least. Can any one help me???? :?: :?:
 

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Yep. Don't worry for one second about exercising. You are a mother, you run a house and you work. If that's not exercise, I don't know what is.

Look around the board and think about controlling the amount of carbs you eat each day. I'm seven stones lighter and the amount of exercise that facilitated that was minimal if not non-existent.

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There are many exercises you can do in the comfort of your own home, one I do which works up a sweat and builds up your leg muscles is walking up & down the stairs continuously, start-off by doing 10 and work your way up.

Never tried one but perhaps those exercise dvd's you see on tv might be helpful in keeping you fit :)
 

LeaLea

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Have tried dvd's but my 2 year old always nearly ends up with a black eye or I end up falling over her. And I live in a bunalow so have no stairs. Am just gonna have to stop sleeping I think. :crazy:
 

davey b

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Hi Leanne and welcome. It really isn't easy is it? When I was first diagnosed I found this forum hoping for some sound advice, and can remember leaving it two hours later feeling more confused than when I first arrived. The amount of information and discussion about various 'diets' is simply... well.... :shock: :lol:

Firstly, you don't say whether you're Type 1 or 2 and if the nurse you're seeing is your Diabetic Specialist Nurse or not. Assuming it IS, then I'm hoping that he/she will be able to give you some good advice. One of the things that you can do to initially help them is to keep a food diary, and a record of your current activity along with your daily test results. If they haven't done already, then you should also get them to refer you to an NHS Dietician.

In my case, I already had a fairly well balanced-healthy diet, and my problem was that I actually lost weight leading up to my diagnosis. I specifically wanted to put ON weight and they were helpful in the advice that they gave me.

There are those here that will swear by a low-carb diet, a low GI diet, this diet and that diet, but the important thing to remember is that one size really doesn't fit all. As with most things in life, you'll find plenty of extremes here. When I read some people's food regimes I'm genuinely left thinking "Sure, your levels might be anywhere between 4.3 and 5.6 every day, but are you really happy?"

It IS about finding what's right for you - and I'm afraid that in this respect, it has to be trial and error. For instance, I can have an orange smoothie and porridge for breakfast, but for others, that would send their levels sky high. I guess that overall, my carb intake is definately lower than a 'normal' balanced diet, but in the main, I can't think of a single item of food that I don't eat now that I did before being diagnosed.

I would also suggest not to put too much pressure on yourself with regard to your achievements. Trying to reduce your weight AND your sugar levels at the same time may not be the best way to achieve either. I think that as long as your weight is stable, then the important thing first is to get your sugar levels down to a controlled level, and THEN you can look at exercise and weight loss. This isn't medical advice, just my own suggestion based on how I wasted the first few months trying to acheive both and wondering why my levels were still all over the place.

Having dropped from 14.6 in Sept last year to 8.3 in Dec, and 7.3 last week, I've been happy. That said, I figured now was the time to try and get my muscle mass back, and in the last three weeks I've had to reduce my insulin amount by a third to prevent hypos later in the day, and this is DESPITE increasing my carbs and protein to compensate for the additional exercise. And this is why I think you should do one thing at a time. Once you know the effect that food has on you, you'll be more informed and prepared for when you start either exercising more and/or adjusting your diet in order to shed a few pounds.

Let us know how you get on with the nurse on Thursday! :thumbup:
 
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I was diagnosed a year ago, and have found the diagnosis very difficult to live with. I am grateful that I have at last found this forum as living in a non-English speaking country has left me feeling very isolated. I hope to learn a lot from all the posts I can read. Thanks already.
 

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Yes, I hve been struggling with the fact that as a Type 2 I have just been put on insulin. I dont want to be on insulin but my levels have been all over the place since I gave up alcohol last year. The insulin is making me feel absolutely starving the whole time, so weight will soon be piling on and I cant afford that as I have already been told to decrease my weight. Why is being diabetic such a strict regime. Do this, dont do that, all the time! I have now been told that fizzy drinks, diet or zero sugar ones contain something that affects the way insulin works - is this true? Does anyone know more about this.
Why it it when on insulin, everything one used to do, cant be enjoyed anymore? My weight has been constant for 4 years while on tablets now it is going up.......... I go to the gym 3 or 4 times a week, to exercise not to work up a sweat but weight stays level. I find it very difficult to eat healthly but also to eat food that keeps me going without containing carbs. Any suggestions?
Forum great - love the chatter
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LeaLea said:
Have tried dvd's but my 2 year old always nearly ends up with a black eye or I end up falling over her. And I live in a bunalow so have no stairs. Am just gonna have to stop sleeping I think. :crazy:


Yeah stairs would be difficult in a bungalow :lol:
 

marti

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Welcome aboard i am Martina from Canada, i am a type 2 diabetic for 7 years and i am on Lantus insulin. this is a great board to get lots of great info on
 

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like wiflib says, you're pretty busy already! so concentrate on what goes in your mouth rather than excercising right now. that can come when your little one goes off to nursery and hopefully you can shift some weight before then. had a friend who did slimming world before her little fella went to nursery - and when he went she'd have the morning to sort the house out... do an excercise video, have quick shower then collect him from nursery. she got in a great habit and dropped a few stone as time went by.

know what you mean tho...my 9yo is at school, but 2 yo at home with me, and she is a chaos causer! i've got a bit to lose from putting 5 stone on with her (blasted insulin) - have a bit left but just found myself pregnant! aaargh shock!! so will have to stick to walking to park/school where i can.

i was in a great habit last year/early this year of taking my 2 yo to the creche at local gym...she LOVED it and i got to burn some serious calories. i will carry on going, even if it's to gently cycle or walk on treadmill. no more spin classes for a while! and no more dreams of entering the race for life 10k! although i could still walk it....there's always next year!!!!
 

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Weeezer, you probably don't have to give up your exercise if you really don't want to. The advice given to pregnant women currently, is that if you are used to doing it, then carry on. Probably not a good idea to start anything new and strenuous though. The thing to watch out for is the increased risk of injury. A hormone called relaxin softens the ligaments in the body, especially the hips, and it's highest in the first and third trimester, hence the risk of injury.

Best of health to you both!

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weeezer

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thanks wiflib. the trouble is with my insulin requirements rising, it's bringing it's fair share of hypos. can't seem to balance it so levels are on an even keel. so any strenuous excercise is out of the question because i can't rule out the fact it will put me hypo, but i'm happy to walk & cycle gently. that'll have to do!