You have been told wrong on BOTH cases.
Dealing with the second item first, ALL diabetics who require medication, even those who do not use insulin, can get a prescription excemption certificate. I got my first one several years ago when, technically, I was not diabetic. My sugar level was a little high, but not worryingly so, but my doctor put me on Metformin becuase it also helps to reduce blood pressure. At that point I was already taking three pills so I tried to say I really could not afford another med to which she replied "When I prescribe Metformin you will not have to pay for any drugs in future."
Now, to testing strips. The general rule that seems to apply these days is that if you need to test in order to get control (and if you are still in the early stages that certainly applies to you) then you get strips. If they want you to change meters to save them long term costs then they will provide you with the new one. I've had mine changed twice in the last 5 years. You will also get free lancets as needed. I get 100 test strips a month normally, but if I'm going through a bad time then I just put in a repeat request and I've never had it turned down.
Also, do you drive? If so then that is another angle that I've found works - you should not drive with either too high or too love blood sugar levels. Until you have learnt how you body feels when levels go wrong you need to test before you drive, and if it is a long drive then you need to test again part way (say after an hour or so).