why not? everyone potentially faces the same complications, do they not? Why should people not be informed of that? and from the beginning? If people come here, and dont see info about complications, they may think that they are ok, that this isnt really that serious etc and leave the forum before they have found out about the thngs that could happen to them and go off and carry on as they were.benedict said:Yes, I took the decision to suspend Defren.
I believe that Defren feels it's important to tell people bluntly about the adverse effects of diabetes.
I have spoken to Defren in the past about this. She believes she is right to say what she says. I admire this on one hand but I don't think it's appropriate for the wide range of members, with differing control, different dietary needs and different types of diabetes, that we have on the forum.
I don't feel Defren took this on board and felt a suspension would be the only way to get across that a change in style of communication needs to be made.
With best regards and best wishes to Defren
Benedict
benedict said:Yes, I took the decision to suspend Defren.
I believe that Defren feels it's important to tell people bluntly about the adverse effects of diabetes.
I have spoken to Defren in the past about this. She believes she is right to say what she says. I admire this on one hand but I don't think it's appropriate for the wide range of members, with differing control, different dietary needs and different types of diabetes, that we have on the forum.
I don't feel Defren took this on board and felt a suspension would be the only way to get across that a change in style of communication needs to be made.
With best regards and best wishes to Defren
Benedict
benedict said:Ashleigh, there are plenty of threads about complications, it's about how it's communicated.
From the posts that Defren has put up over the months, it seems she firmly believes that eating any more than very small amounts of carbohydrate will lead to complications and it has been put in blunt ways that have put off a number of new and long time members. It had to stop as it had already gone too far.
Lucy, no subject has been banned. It's about talking about it in a sensitive and reasonable manner.
Benedict
benedict said:Ashleigh, there are plenty of threads about complications, it's about how it's communicated.
From the posts that Defren has put up over the months, it seems she firmly believes that eating any more than very small amounts of carbohydrate will lead to complications and it has been put in blunt ways that have put off a number of new and long time members. It had to stop as it had already gone too far.
Lucy, no subject has been banned. It's about talking about it in a sensitive and reasonable manner.
Benedict
benedict said:From the posts that Defren has put up over the months, it seems she firmly believes that eating any more than very small amounts of carbohydrate will lead to complications and it has been put in blunt ways that have put off a number of new and long time members. It had to stop as it had already gone too far.
I dont see how 'if you dont control your blood sugars, you may get complications' can be softened.
For this we clearly need 2 different filters:lucylocket61 said:again, I will return to my argument about Newbie and Minors having access to limited part of the forum.
benedict said:Look through some of the censorship thread comments and you will find very reasonable people holding a similar viewpoint.
lucy said:and stress is bad for our blood sugar levels.
benedict said:From the posts that Defren has put up over the months, it seems she firmly believes that eating any more than very small amounts of carbohydrate will lead to complications and it has been put in blunt ways that have put off a number of new and long time members. It had to stop as it had already gone too far.