Bob67 said:
This forum is for helpful fuzzy warm support like that you might get from your dietician or holding kittens. :cry:
Bob you've clearly never held my kitten... :lol:
Just to add to the mollycoddling new members thing (and apologies if it's dragging things up but I've not logged in for a few days):
If people here had mollycoddled me when I joined with my insane blood sugar levels of 28 mmol/L I would NOT be where I am now; which is with blood sugar levels that are consistently under 10mmol/L.
Not perfect by a long shot, but MUCH better and I WOULD NOT have been able to do it without the support and advice of the knowledgeable members here.
If I'd been soothed and given the "there there" type responses I would probably still be in and out of hospital.
So if mollycoddling is the way it's going to go, I'd rather not be a part of it.
I'm urging those that are culling frank, firm and blunt discussions to THINK about the people that exactly those discussions WILL help.
After all, surely that's what this forum is here for, right? To HELP people, to INFORM people and to ADVISE people based on all of our own unique experiences?