Tanilou said:
Iam a lesbian & have been with my partner for 10years she has had type 2 diabetes for 8 of them 10years & bit by bit are reliationship as got worse we have not had a sexual reiationship since she got told she was diabetic, we no longer cuddle up or hug or even kiss. We dont even share a bed. Please someone help... I love her & would never cheat but this is making our reliationship very rocky we both have alot of other problems & this is making it worse. She as told me when she looks at me she see nothing.. That really hurts is there anyone who nose what I can do to save me reliationship
Tanilou, thats so sad, I am thinking is it possible that your partner is suffering from depression? Diabetes and depression often go hand in hand. How is she coping with her diabetes, is she well controlled?
Minitata's suggestion of relationship counselling is a good one, you need to talk, perhaps make plans together on how to tackle your issues, if you feel you are stuck in a rut/the excitement gone from your relationship try to do something new/different, doesnt have to be anything outrageously different either, small steps.
Sending a big hug to both of you, I hope things get better soon x x