Hi I don't come on here or post very often, but might start trying to.
I have a 9 year old daughter who will be 10 in July. She is type 1 diabetic and has been since September 2011. Her name is Aislin (Ashlin) and she is the youngest of our children, who are quite a bit older than her. We all thought that we had been coping quite well with her diabetes and things have started to get easier. Our daughter has always been a difficult child and always waned her own way, and I know as parents we have given in to a lot of it for an easier life, but since she got diagnosed with diabetes her attitude and behaviour has got a lot worse and I mean a lot worse and we don't know where to turn! Aislin has a lot of anger and is always shouting and causing arguments with everyone, even over the simplest of things eg: Like getting ready for bed, getting her dinner, getting ready of school, or even talking to you. She won't take no for an answer and won't listen to reason, she thinks she is always right!.. Aislin has started to shout at everyone and call all of us names as well telling myself and her dad that she hates us and we are horrible parents, which is really heart breaking to hear. We are beginning to feel like we are failing her!
Has anyone else had a child like this and how did you cope?
Aislin's mum Tina x
I have a 9 year old daughter who will be 10 in July. She is type 1 diabetic and has been since September 2011. Her name is Aislin (Ashlin) and she is the youngest of our children, who are quite a bit older than her. We all thought that we had been coping quite well with her diabetes and things have started to get easier. Our daughter has always been a difficult child and always waned her own way, and I know as parents we have given in to a lot of it for an easier life, but since she got diagnosed with diabetes her attitude and behaviour has got a lot worse and I mean a lot worse and we don't know where to turn! Aislin has a lot of anger and is always shouting and causing arguments with everyone, even over the simplest of things eg: Like getting ready for bed, getting her dinner, getting ready of school, or even talking to you. She won't take no for an answer and won't listen to reason, she thinks she is always right!.. Aislin has started to shout at everyone and call all of us names as well telling myself and her dad that she hates us and we are horrible parents, which is really heart breaking to hear. We are beginning to feel like we are failing her!
Has anyone else had a child like this and how did you cope?
Aislin's mum Tina x