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Hey, I'm wondering if some of you can offer some advice, really struggling with this...
Was diagnosed type 1, after a bit of a faff - and am just getting round to telling people as was just trying to deal with it myself first... Was at a place where I kinda felt ok with it - I'm not insulin dependent yet, and am currently working really hard to preserve what pancreas function I have for as long as possible. This is pretty tough at times; I keep to less than 50g carbs (as a vegan (who eats fish) this is pretty hard work / restrictive in itself), I run a few times a week, and in the days inbetween I make sure I do other excercise be it weights at home, walking, power yoga etc. I am not overweight (bmi now 21, was 23 at diagnosis) and eat a lot of 'superfoods' plus read *a lot* to see if there's anything else I can be doing... My point is - I accept that I may well require insulin at some stage, but in the meantime I'm trying to be very proactive - and I don't mind this - except...
When I'm telling people I'm diabetic, they instantly say - 'oh, that's pretty easy to reverse - I've a friend who is too, he/she just lost weight/ate a bit healthier' - or - 'oh yes, I read an article about how to reverse that' etc etc... Now I'm very careful to say I'm type 1, but they just think I'm 'coming up with excuses' - I can see it in their faces, or in some instances they even go on to say 'yea, this guy in such and such thought it was impossible too, but then he cut the **** out of his diet and he was fine again' - one woman even told me all I needed to do was cut out pop - I've never drunk pop in my life!!
I'm trying not to be affected by it, but I'm finding it really, really challenging to not become really defensive, and come off looking like I'm being '******' or lazy...
Last night I actually had to walk away mid conversation from a man who, after the initial 'oh you can easily reverse that' and me calmly saying 'I think you're getting mixed up with type 2', said to me 'no, I know diabetes, you just need to exercise a bit and eat a bit healthier'.
Sorry for the rant, but not sure how to deal with these situations, and feeling really upset that people are judging me as being someone who's just not trying - especially when I am trying so very much :-(
Was diagnosed type 1, after a bit of a faff - and am just getting round to telling people as was just trying to deal with it myself first... Was at a place where I kinda felt ok with it - I'm not insulin dependent yet, and am currently working really hard to preserve what pancreas function I have for as long as possible. This is pretty tough at times; I keep to less than 50g carbs (as a vegan (who eats fish) this is pretty hard work / restrictive in itself), I run a few times a week, and in the days inbetween I make sure I do other excercise be it weights at home, walking, power yoga etc. I am not overweight (bmi now 21, was 23 at diagnosis) and eat a lot of 'superfoods' plus read *a lot* to see if there's anything else I can be doing... My point is - I accept that I may well require insulin at some stage, but in the meantime I'm trying to be very proactive - and I don't mind this - except...
When I'm telling people I'm diabetic, they instantly say - 'oh, that's pretty easy to reverse - I've a friend who is too, he/she just lost weight/ate a bit healthier' - or - 'oh yes, I read an article about how to reverse that' etc etc... Now I'm very careful to say I'm type 1, but they just think I'm 'coming up with excuses' - I can see it in their faces, or in some instances they even go on to say 'yea, this guy in such and such thought it was impossible too, but then he cut the **** out of his diet and he was fine again' - one woman even told me all I needed to do was cut out pop - I've never drunk pop in my life!!
I'm trying not to be affected by it, but I'm finding it really, really challenging to not become really defensive, and come off looking like I'm being '******' or lazy...
Last night I actually had to walk away mid conversation from a man who, after the initial 'oh you can easily reverse that' and me calmly saying 'I think you're getting mixed up with type 2', said to me 'no, I know diabetes, you just need to exercise a bit and eat a bit healthier'.
Sorry for the rant, but not sure how to deal with these situations, and feeling really upset that people are judging me as being someone who's just not trying - especially when I am trying so very much :-(