Hi Deb, dont believe everything you see on Youtube or indeed believe everything you read on the internet.
The one
fact that you should focus on is that fat has over twice the calories that carbs and protein have and if you want to lose weight you will have to reduce the calories you eat. The only other thing that runs a close second to fat is alcohol.
Calories per gram of:
Fat: 1 gram = 9 calories
Protein: 1 gram = 4 calories
Carbohydrates: 1 gram = 4 calories
Alcohol: 1 gram = 7 calories
If you want to lose weight reduce the fat and alcohol in your diet.
I have lost over 5 stones over the last 5 years and have found that as my weight reduced so did my insulin resistance so the need to reduce carbs was reduced along with the weight loss this seems to me to be the ideal way to diet and control bg levels at the same time and would not have happened if I had eaten more fat as more fat = more calories. I started out eating around 60g carbs but have no idea how many carbs I eat today as I simply dont count them any longer but its probably between 120 and 220 a day but thats purely a best guess.
So I started off low(ish) carb but as my weight reduced my carb consumption has increased so my weight loss has slowed down naturally as my weight has stabilised at a weight I am happy with and I now eat a fairly normal diet and dont have to think about my bg levels all the time either.
You can vlchf if you want to and as long as you are getting enough vitamins and minerals in your diet you should come to no harm but do you want to eat that way for the rest of your life? I dont know, maybe you do, but there are alternatives and the one outlined above has worked brilliantly for me and many others, so dont believe that vlchf is the only way because it isnt.
In my opinion and it is only my opinion but if you increase the fat in your diet all you do is slow down any possible weight loss and surely no one trying to lose weight wants to do that do they?
As I said at the beginning dont believe everything you see and read on the internet