We all can avoid the spammers, just dont open their dodgy, irritating emails, moderators are not here full time, they are doing the best they can.
When I first read Sukarens post I felt very very sorry for her, I thought how awful and how alone she must be feeling, a few days earlier she had a really bad time, many of us responded to her post, gave her hugs and encouragement, etc and she thanked us all, so for Sukaren to suddenly announce that she is not coming back in here something must have happened? I mean go, read down that thread... see what I mean? I am assuming here, not sure of course, but my instant reaction was 'this is another cry for help, we have upset her, and if that is the case then I am SORRY Sukaren,people should be coming in here and leave feeling a bit better.
This has turned into a really nast thread and the whole thing should be deleted, people should speak up, a its refreshing to have different opinions, but remember there are some very sensitive members in here too, struggling from time to time and it is those members that feel that they are personally attacked when some of the more forceful members in here say something in response.
People might not remember what you said or what you did, but they certainly remember how you made them feel.
And I really do think that it is the members of this forum that make it what it is, and at the moment this particular thread is causing upset, it shouldnt be like this, should it?
Love to all
Karen
Lets pray for the spammers that they too will one day be able to lead happy, meaningful lives
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