Hi XIX
I was diagnosed 17 years ago as T1 when I was in my early twenties. I completely understand your issues with food and diet. I had an eating disorder in my teens and I have to say it has never really left me. I was in denial to begin with that there was anything wrong with me. However I quickly realised that the more sugary and fatty foods I ate the more weight I lost if I didn't take my insulin. I ended up extremely skinny and very ill. There is a name for this - it's diabulimia and I had it for years.
I have lost count of the times I ended up in Hospital with ketoacidosis. I have been in intensive care twice. The last time I suffered a cardiac arrest and my family were told I wouldn't be going home. I have kidney failure heart failure retinopathy ulcers on my feet leading to various bone removals. I have had surgery to remove abscesses. My hair is falling out and my teeth crumbled. I can't wear boots or shoes only trainers. My teeth cost me thousands of pounds to fix. I also have ibs and can't go anywhere without checking the layout and routes for toilet facilities. I am currently on the transplant list for a kidney and pancreas which apparently is about 4 years at present. Do I have that long? I do dialysis 3 times a week. I need a double heart bypass but have had 2 stents in the meantime. I also need my gall bladder removed. I like to stay slim but because of the kidney failure I retain fluid and it sits in my legs arms stomach face etc and sometimes I look bloated and puffy as I need dialysis to remove the fluid as I can no longer get rid of it myself.
The reason I am telling you all this is not because I am looking for sympathy but to hopefully shock you into getting control of your diabetes before it controls you. As a woman I understand how important appearance is and despite everything I still look after myself and like to look my best. I was warned about complications but thought I would have years before anything happened and I would have good control before that. It didn't happen like that. You can't afford to be complacent about this illness. I know it sounds vain but if someone had told me as a young woman of the physical changes to my appearance I might have heeded them a lot quicker and I wouldn't be in this mess now. It's completely my fault and I know it and that makes me so angry with myself.
However I recently completed the DAFNE course about counting carbs and ratios of insulin. I'm not going into detail here as there's too much to it just to say do this course!! It's fantastic! It teaches you that there need not be any restrictions in food if you count the carbs. It is tailored to your personal needs. Food need not be so much of an issue and nor is alcohol. I really wish I'd done this course years ago. Your diabetes consultant will be able to give you details
I guess what I'm trying to say is I know how hard it is when you have an eating disorder. I still feel guilty about everything I put in my mouth but I hope that what I've described to you is enough to encourage you to take control of this disease and look after yourself. If you don't you will lose everything that's important to you as a female. I have been like this for years and I'm not yet 40.
Please look into doing the DAFNE or BERTIE courses. One is done over one week the other is done one day a week for five weeks. This will arm you with all the information you need to control your diabetes properly and to still have a decent social life. It's a bit of hard work initially but once you've done it it's so worth it and should make sure you stay healthy and well until this cure is found.
If you need to ask me anything or chat then feel free to get in touch. I will be only too happy to help in any way I can
I have a husband and two kids and mum and Dad and sister etc and I love life and will fight to get through this for as long as I need to but if I had listened in the first place I wouldn't have to fight at all!!
Sorry this post is so long but I hope it's helped!
Good luck with it all!!
Susan
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I was diagnosed 17 years ago as T1 when I was in my early twenties. I completely understand your issues with food and diet. I had an eating disorder in my teens and I have to say it has never really left me. I was in denial to begin with that there was anything wrong with me. However I quickly realised that the more sugary and fatty foods I ate the more weight I lost if I didn't take my insulin. I ended up extremely skinny and very ill. There is a name for this - it's diabulimia and I had it for years.
I have lost count of the times I ended up in Hospital with ketoacidosis. I have been in intensive care twice. The last time I suffered a cardiac arrest and my family were told I wouldn't be going home. I have kidney failure heart failure retinopathy ulcers on my feet leading to various bone removals. I have had surgery to remove abscesses. My hair is falling out and my teeth crumbled. I can't wear boots or shoes only trainers. My teeth cost me thousands of pounds to fix. I also have ibs and can't go anywhere without checking the layout and routes for toilet facilities. I am currently on the transplant list for a kidney and pancreas which apparently is about 4 years at present. Do I have that long? I do dialysis 3 times a week. I need a double heart bypass but have had 2 stents in the meantime. I also need my gall bladder removed. I like to stay slim but because of the kidney failure I retain fluid and it sits in my legs arms stomach face etc and sometimes I look bloated and puffy as I need dialysis to remove the fluid as I can no longer get rid of it myself.
The reason I am telling you all this is not because I am looking for sympathy but to hopefully shock you into getting control of your diabetes before it controls you. As a woman I understand how important appearance is and despite everything I still look after myself and like to look my best. I was warned about complications but thought I would have years before anything happened and I would have good control before that. It didn't happen like that. You can't afford to be complacent about this illness. I know it sounds vain but if someone had told me as a young woman of the physical changes to my appearance I might have heeded them a lot quicker and I wouldn't be in this mess now. It's completely my fault and I know it and that makes me so angry with myself.
However I recently completed the DAFNE course about counting carbs and ratios of insulin. I'm not going into detail here as there's too much to it just to say do this course!! It's fantastic! It teaches you that there need not be any restrictions in food if you count the carbs. It is tailored to your personal needs. Food need not be so much of an issue and nor is alcohol. I really wish I'd done this course years ago. Your diabetes consultant will be able to give you details
I guess what I'm trying to say is I know how hard it is when you have an eating disorder. I still feel guilty about everything I put in my mouth but I hope that what I've described to you is enough to encourage you to take control of this disease and look after yourself. If you don't you will lose everything that's important to you as a female. I have been like this for years and I'm not yet 40.
Please look into doing the DAFNE or BERTIE courses. One is done over one week the other is done one day a week for five weeks. This will arm you with all the information you need to control your diabetes properly and to still have a decent social life. It's a bit of hard work initially but once you've done it it's so worth it and should make sure you stay healthy and well until this cure is found.
If you need to ask me anything or chat then feel free to get in touch. I will be only too happy to help in any way I can
I have a husband and two kids and mum and Dad and sister etc and I love life and will fight to get through this for as long as I need to but if I had listened in the first place I wouldn't have to fight at all!!
Sorry this post is so long but I hope it's helped!
Good luck with it all!!
Susan
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