Hello 'Trinkwasser',
I am the 'control Freak' you refer to in Donna (my wifes) thread, 'I need Advice'
I am absolutely 'Livid' over your postI and didn't want to publicly post this, but feel it is necessary, and demand an immediate appology - you (and others), have made terrible, almost slanderous comments in this thread - without any knowledge of the facts. Several members have Emailed me after my last post, and I have told them the following.
You do not know the FACTS - Donna is a Diabetic, yes! - However she is needs psychiatric care for paranoia, split personality, and fantasising. One day, she is the sweet, caring and loving wife, another, she is a screaming, foul mouthed 'banshee', twisiting anything said into a personal attack. I walk on a knife edge.
In the last few weeks, she has had Parkinsons Disease, Osteo Porosis, several strokes, fallen out of bed several times, and fallen downstairs twice (none of which I have heard, and no visual bruises, etc). Last night on the telephone to one of our few remaining friends, (all of whom have had violent verbal abuse from her), she said she had just been sick all over the bedroom - sadly, I could find no evidence.
Donna who is in 'real life called 'Sunny', was a very talented musician until these 'problems' of hers arose, please take a look at my Website, and see her, listen to her music (or mine, for that matter!), and you will perhaps understand a little more - click on the link below, and then on the heading 'SunnyH'
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http://www.John4Music.TV
She says she hates Doctors, so will not see one, when she does, she asks for confidentiality (so I don't know anything!), and so the Doctor cannot help me understand. She hates the English, hates England, hates English food (at present she is living on Bananas, Toast and Breakfast Cereals), saying there is nothing in the house she can eat). She refuses to allow me to contact her Doctor to tell him of the problems.
Two days ago her 'Osteo Porosis' was so bad that she could only walk 'doubled up' and with a walking stick - leaning against walls, etc, with 2 inch steps - today she is fine, although she is acting as if 'drunk' with slurred incoherrent speech. Its all a call for sympathy, but sadly, she has exhausted everyones sympathy, and none of us can cope or help her any more. One day it will be a 'Genuine' illness, and it will be a case of 'cry Wolf'.
At 72 years of age, I too have several illnesses - Prostate, Deep Vein Thrombosis, causing two Pulmonary Embolisms in the last year (life-threatening admissions to Hospital!), I have Peripheral Vascular disease, which causes my legs to 'Balloon' and ulcerate, and have to have them dressed weekly. I keep all this to myself, and cope with it, but I just cannot cope with Donna. I walk on a knife edge, and will soon be a crazy as her. Our friends all think she needs 'sectioning'. I need no sympathy or ask help from anyone for myself.
Donna desparately needs help, but until she will admit and accept she has problems (Diabetes is the smallest one!). There is no solution.
I hope this post will be answered sensibly, and an unreserved appology given to me. Scurrilous posts, as some in this thread are most unhelpful and abusive.
John (The Musicmaker)
PS, after writing this Personal message to you, I have also decided to copy and past it into the offending thread. I am hopping mad!
(Later Edit) ...... I don't think Donna (Sunny) will post again on here, as I confronted her with what she had written, and a printed copy, which I am keeping for use as and when I can get 'official' help. However, should she post again, please bear in mind the above.
'J'