Heathenlass
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Thing is, there are many different kinds of love. I am very happy I am not a school girl but it hurts anyway.
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Thing is, there are many different kinds of love. I am very happy I am not a school girl but it hurts anyway.
Would anyone care to translate this into English please x
Last night we had a bit of a pub crawl with a meal included. Or rather, we walked through Stockholm, my part of Stockholm, and sat down now and then for a beer and talked and talked and laughed and said silly things and were serious and walked a bit further.
Today we went out to an island and just were the there, not doing much, but together. Tonight we cooked a meal together at my brothers place, where we are staying. We have tomorrow left then Im taking him to the air port in the early hours of Sunday morning.
His girlfriend is jealous while hubby isnt. We talked a bit about that last night. About us, his girlfriend, my husband and marriage, changes I will try to make in my life and stuff and about him, of course, and his life with the girlfriend.
I really do love hubby, but I think I love my young friend too. Not sure in what way, there are many aspects of love, but it is love. He loves me too. I am not saying love as in being in love, although that probably is a part of this love. It is a mess and it is lovely. I will be devastated again on Sunday but until then I will only be happy.
Thank you. God knows when we will see each other again as I took him to the air port this morning and he will be landing in Paris in half an hour.Hiya Totto.
Do you, deep down, think it a positive action, knowing your attraction/feelings towards this young man, to
continue meeting together while taking into account the possibility of a distressful ending of the relationship?
Are you absolutely certain you're not prolonging any future angst for yourself, or indeed, the young man.
It's a tough call being brutally honest with one’s self at times.
I wish you all the very best in restoring peace and calm back into your mind once again.
Regards.
willie
Nope, no angst really, mostly happiness. And you are probably right in that hubby doesn't see how very much I like my young friend. But I have complained continuously since he left us in August of missing him so haven't been quiet on the subject either and it is no secret I have spent the last days with him.Its always stressful Totto, a relationship ridden with angst as this one must be.....you say your husband's not jealous so perhaps he has no idea of your feelings for this friend of yours or maybe he's just riding the storm......I really hope things work out for you and wish you well.
So what happens now?Nope, no angst really, mostly happiness. And you are probably right in that hubby doesn't see how very much I like my young friend. But I have complained continuously since he left us in August of missing him so haven't been quiet on the subject either and it is no secret I have spent the last days with him.
Sometimes these things happen. It was a shame you didn't meet when you were both not involved with others as you sound like soul mates. What is he studying? I can't remember if you've mentioned it or if I have forgotten. I need to brush up my German too. I haven't taught any German for at least a year so it's rusty. If you need any help let me know! Hubbie was out last night - playing poker with brother and friends and kids in bed so I watched Män som hatar kvinnor and inte flera mord. Bliss as no interruptions! Not so bliss when he came in at 3am drunk (drinks very little so when he does sink a few beers he's somewhat the worse for wear.)Now this part is over. He is young and confident we will keep in touch and see each other soon again. I have an invitation to France, of course. Which I won´t have the time or money to accept any time soon and he feels it is wise to calm his girl friend down a bit first anyway. I am not as confident.
This was a strange and unexpected relationship to happen, us meeting and liking each other so much, across the borders of generations, language, nations and convention. Now we will get on with our lives, I with hubby and the farm, he with his girlfriend and his studies but we will skype and write and probably see each other at some point in the future. He is working on learning Swedish while I have decided not to learn French until I have brushed up my German into a usable condition.
All in all, I miss him but feel good about it.
Engineering. And our main problem isn't really our involvement in other relationship but the age difference. I have been with hubby since my young friend was in primary school. I was already established in my career and several years out of uni living in my own house when he was born!Sometimes these things happen. It was a shame you didn't meet when you were both not involved with others as you sound like soul mates. What is he studying? I can't remember if you've mentioned it or if I have forgotten. I need to brush up my German too. I haven't taught any German for at least a year so it's rusty. If you need any help let me know! Hubbie was out last night - playing poker with brother and friends and kids in bed so I watched Män som hatar kvinnor and inte flera mord. Bliss as no interruptions! Not so bliss when he came in at 3am drunk (drinks very little so when he does sink a few beers he's somewhat the worse for wear.)
Can help with that too! Do you have any French?Seems I will have to start learning French anyway, as I just got an email in that language!
Does this mean that your relationship with hubbie is over? If the age difference not the fact that you both have partners is the issue? Or are the 2 of you going to remain just good friends? Will his girlfriend be accepting of your friendship? If it was a friendship then why is she jealous? Just wondering?Engineering. And our main problem isn't really our involvement in other relationship but the age difference. I have been with hubby since my young friend was in primary school. I was already established in my career and several years out of uni living in my own house when he was born!
Two films in a row, well done!