semiphonic
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Hi Molly, before I was diagnosed what I knew about diabetes could have been written in very large letters on the back of a postage stamp. After diagnosis, with the lack of any usable information from my GP, I looked at as much information as I could on the internet. The result? All I could see in my future was an early, slow and agonising death mainly involving blindness and amputation, I spent nearly two weeks curled up on my sofa in tears, nothing my wife or children said was of any help. I also spent this time eating as much sugar as I could, sweets, biscuits, cake etc etc, I was at deaths door as it was, so why not eat as much of that **** as I could, right? I kind of 'woke up' and decided to do some proper research, found this forum, and after some great advice I got good control and realised that diabetes isn't necessarily a death sentence.
I, obviously, don't know your OH, but I suspect he's where I was before I 'woke up'. If that is the case, given that he feels he's about to die I think his attitude to diabetes is totally understandable. He needs, or you need, to find the 'wake up' moment, as soon as that happens everything will change.
Although you're probably not told, your continued support will be of great comfort to him, and he won't be feeling totally alone.
I wish you both the very best and hope that you are able to get through this.
I, obviously, don't know your OH, but I suspect he's where I was before I 'woke up'. If that is the case, given that he feels he's about to die I think his attitude to diabetes is totally understandable. He needs, or you need, to find the 'wake up' moment, as soon as that happens everything will change.
Although you're probably not told, your continued support will be of great comfort to him, and he won't be feeling totally alone.
I wish you both the very best and hope that you are able to get through this.