sanguine
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Hi Pavlos
Great post. It's entirely natural in middle age I think to have periods of introspection and even melancholia - it's part of the human condition. And it's especially the case when you get closer (hopefully not for a while yet) to becoming the senior member of your family and become more conscious of your own mortality. My dad died last November and it does make you think differently.
I have always had occasional 'dog days' where for no obvious reason I just switch off and can't function. This was more common as a teenager mind you, and my family stop it happening too often nowadays. But sometimes one inevitably thinks about why am I here, what difference has my life made etc. If it's done positively (and I'm sure we can all think of many good things we've done) that's fine, but it's less helpful to resort to 'if only' scenarios - even though it's difficult not to. I can think of numerous times when I could have made a different choice, but there's nothing can be done about it now so don't go there too often! Like @cold ethyl I spend a lot of time thinking about my earlier life, which from here seems so less complicated and free - nostalgia is great but as they say it's not like it used to be! But it's better to talk about such things, even on a forum like this where we are still fairly anonymous and objective, than to bottle it all up.
Great post. It's entirely natural in middle age I think to have periods of introspection and even melancholia - it's part of the human condition. And it's especially the case when you get closer (hopefully not for a while yet) to becoming the senior member of your family and become more conscious of your own mortality. My dad died last November and it does make you think differently.
I have always had occasional 'dog days' where for no obvious reason I just switch off and can't function. This was more common as a teenager mind you, and my family stop it happening too often nowadays. But sometimes one inevitably thinks about why am I here, what difference has my life made etc. If it's done positively (and I'm sure we can all think of many good things we've done) that's fine, but it's less helpful to resort to 'if only' scenarios - even though it's difficult not to. I can think of numerous times when I could have made a different choice, but there's nothing can be done about it now so don't go there too often! Like @cold ethyl I spend a lot of time thinking about my earlier life, which from here seems so less complicated and free - nostalgia is great but as they say it's not like it used to be! But it's better to talk about such things, even on a forum like this where we are still fairly anonymous and objective, than to bottle it all up.