Hi, I had my first and only daughter when I was 38 - I've been Type 1 for 27 years this year. It was hard going but so worth it!
I did not manage to get my Hba1 down until I was about 8 weeks pregnant but then maintained a 6.2 throughout. However, one of the biggest things I learnt (afterwards and during my second pregnancy) that non-one seemed to tell me, is that you are much more vulnerable to hypos in the first 10 weeks of pregnancy. I actually ended up in an ambulance early on in my second pregnancy (and subsequently miscarried) - so please be aware that your hypos may come on very suddenly and with less warnings than you are used to, especially when you are trying so hard to keep them low, they can drop very quickly in the first 10 weeks. So, always be sure to carry Glucogel with you - it's the quickest way to get glucose in!
I wish my diabetic nurse had told me this before I was pregnant, instead of afterwards!
Nevermind, I have a gorgeous girl who was born at 36 weeks (because I developed pre-eclampsia) at 6lb 4oz and didn't need to go into special care at all - she was perfect. During my pregnancy I had to take 3 times as much insulin as I did before, I was taking almost 60 units of overnight insulin!
As soon as the baby is born though, you have to drop your insulin right down, especially if breastfeeding, because it takes a lot of effort and energy to breastfeed and all the disturbed sleep plays havoc with your sugar levels! But after the pregnancy you can relax a bit and just enjoy life!
Good luck with everything and most of all, enjoy every minute! xxx