ShyGirl, I feel for you. There was a time when I was taking many different medications, I then developed side effects and was prescribed mediation to deal with those, it was getting scary.
I was sent from pillar to post from one hospital consultant to the next, I had that many appointments I could play snap with them.
I felt very helpless and confused, even more so when one consultant prescribed a whole lot of bp medication saying that they would protect my kidneys, 2 months later I found myself in hospital with dangerously high potassium levels, caused by prescribed medication. I think that was the lowest point in my diabetic history.
I finally changed GP, begged the new one to start with me from scratch, kind of, thank goodness she listenend to me.
I discussed low carbing with her, she agreed to monitor my progress, I must say this low carbing is not the easiest to do, it took me a while, and decided to reduce the carbs gradually.
For me this was probably the best way as it allowed me to also gradually reduce medication, as I lost weight and increased activity levels my bp and bg came down and so my medication was reduced bit by bit. My confidence grew with it.
I saw your post re the awful clinic, ShyGirl I suggest that you go and make a double appointment with your doctor to give you a bit more than the average 5 - 10 mins talk, and write down what you want to say, what you need help with, and discuss with your doctor, say you want to work as a team please, say you want to be a bit more pro-active and need his/her support. Work out a plan together. This is what I did and it helped me, I stress that I can only tell you that, I cannot promise it works for you, but it may be worth a try?
I used to take 9 pills in the morning, 5 at lunch and 6 at night, every single day and I still felt really ill all the time, my electrolytes were all over the place, especially as I was being sick and vomiting frequently, nightsweats, and so forth.
I wish you good luck with it all.