Hi Brian,and welcome to the forum,You've got a lot on your plate there!!I think we all head for comfort food in times of stress.How about changing your comfort foods to something more diabetic friendly? Nuts for instance.Once you get passed the craving for sweet stuff then things like nuts are a lot better for you.(providing there is not a nut allergy,obviously!)
If you do nor buy these things and have them in the house then ,when the urge comes and they are not to hand try and go do something else,If you were a woman I'd suggest a long,relaxing bath,don't quite know if that works for men the same!!Or try and eat things that do not have carbs such as cheese,cold meats,etc.What sort of situations make you comfort eat? Maybe avoiding these may help although that's easier said than done. Don't know if any of this helps but your are not alone now.You have got the forum members here to help you.We understand a lot of what you are going through because we have all been there at one time or another.