Hi everyone,
I am a mother of a 14 year old son who was diagnosed with type 1 just 2 weeks ago (incidentally I was diagnosed with type 2 just 2 weeks before that). For the first couple of days he was stunned but seemed to cope well, even finding it quite interesting testing his blood glucose levels as he likes gadgets. He has become moody, sullen, argumentative - and yes I know this can be typical teenage behaviour as I have 2 older children (20 and 16 - the 16 year old was diagnosed with epilepsy about 7 weeks ago), how should we handle it? This morning he flew into a rage because his brother woke him up about 20 mins earlier than he usually wakes. He came downstairs, yelled at me then went back to bed saying he wasn't going to get up. Eventually after a bit of persuasion and cajoling he did get back out of bed. He said he wasn't hungry (if he wasn't then this was the only time since diagnosis that he hadn't been) so wasn't going to test his blood sugar or eat or take his insulin. I know that he didn't really mean it and that it was his anger talking so I tried calmly to say that he shouldn't miss his injection and that by not eating he would be very hungry in school. I then had to leave for work as I was already late. I think being left on his own was probably the best thing as he rang me about half an hour later to tell me he wasn't taking his blood suger meter to school with him as his finger pricker had stopped working. Any tips on how to deal with this type of behaviour would be much appreciated. My stress levels are rapidly rising!
I am a mother of a 14 year old son who was diagnosed with type 1 just 2 weeks ago (incidentally I was diagnosed with type 2 just 2 weeks before that). For the first couple of days he was stunned but seemed to cope well, even finding it quite interesting testing his blood glucose levels as he likes gadgets. He has become moody, sullen, argumentative - and yes I know this can be typical teenage behaviour as I have 2 older children (20 and 16 - the 16 year old was diagnosed with epilepsy about 7 weeks ago), how should we handle it? This morning he flew into a rage because his brother woke him up about 20 mins earlier than he usually wakes. He came downstairs, yelled at me then went back to bed saying he wasn't going to get up. Eventually after a bit of persuasion and cajoling he did get back out of bed. He said he wasn't hungry (if he wasn't then this was the only time since diagnosis that he hadn't been) so wasn't going to test his blood sugar or eat or take his insulin. I know that he didn't really mean it and that it was his anger talking so I tried calmly to say that he shouldn't miss his injection and that by not eating he would be very hungry in school. I then had to leave for work as I was already late. I think being left on his own was probably the best thing as he rang me about half an hour later to tell me he wasn't taking his blood suger meter to school with him as his finger pricker had stopped working. Any tips on how to deal with this type of behaviour would be much appreciated. My stress levels are rapidly rising!