Hi folks
This is my first post in this forum after only discovering the site and joining this weekend. Hello everyone!
Just to reply to you cyb3rminx, you've done extremely well to get thus far. Remember that. When I was first diagnosed with Type 1 at 35 (I am now almost 36 1/2), I felt my whole world crumbling in. I felt down, alone and the feeling of "Why me?". This is not the case. Many times, those around you feel your anguish, your struggles and your heartache but often cannot find a way to express this. Even some of those around you will still feel that diabetes is a medieval condition that is shrouded with imagery of long needles and the unknown. This is not the case either.
Look on your new condition as an opportunity to take stock of life, of what is important, of your current physiology, your lifestyle and start this as a building block. I did. At first I felt so low as you do/did and this is normal. We all need to 'grieve' as this condition feels alien. It is something that we do not deserve to have or want. Look on your life ahead of you now with vigour and use your children and family/friends around you as incentives to manage the condition. Bounce off them and reflect back positivity about diabetes - let them see and feel that you are on top of this. Remember that diabetes is not a death sentence, it is a medical condition which is treatable. I looked on the condition after as a rare opportunuity in life to take stock and realise that we only have one body and as custodians of that, the need to look after it as best we can.
There are days now where I forget to take my insulation occasionally as I am sure most do, where I think "You know what, I don't want this anymore!" and feel like not testing or injecting. This is normal too. Thankfully, these days are few.
Many folks on this website will provision support and help - you've come to one of the best places to find that. Time is a great healer and I am sure you are finding mechanisms to cope and work around this. Just remember that what you were/are feeling is normal and that you will punch through it; in fact, I'll go as far as saying, it will make you stronger.
I have an identical twin brother who is showing early signs of the condition and it is my prayer that he doesn't develop it. If he does however, I'll be there to help him as best I can to get through it, using my own experiences to encourage and assist. Bizarrely enough, I have a friend at work in the same office who is also an identical twin who has just been diagnosed a type 1 (his brother already a type 1). The point I am making, is to use your own experiences to support others around you over time; this you'll find is extremely theraupetic.
Take care.
mrbobuk
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