Firstly those figures that you've posted aren't quite as bad as you are imagining them to be. Yes they are a little on the high side in the pre-diabetic range, but getting your weight down, a sensible LCHF diet and regular exercise will benefit you and in the long term it can help prevent you going on to develop FULL diabetes.
As for the difference in your home B/G reading and those from the Lab, well this is understandable also, when you consider that home B/G meters can vary in accuracy by + or - 10% quite easily and your home B/G readings will depend when you have taken them and what you have eaten between then and the time when the reading was taken. Also bear in mind that the HbA1c reading is linked to your home readings but isn't the same thing. It differs in that it gives an average reading of you B/G over the previous 12 weeks, where as your home B/G meter is designed to show only the reading at that particular time instant.
Your OGTT test looks pretty good, the 11 mmol/L reading taken 1 hour after drinking the Glucose Drink is perfectly normal and your bodies metabolism seem to have dealt well with this as you readings fell back to 4.6 mmol/L shortly after that initial high peak.
All in all, though none of us here on this site could diagnose your overall diabetic outcome, in general it would not seem too bad, but you will need to monitor things carefully to ensure that you head in the right direction and hopefully then come out of the pre-diabetic band and down within the safe non-diabetic region.
All the best for the future.