Paul - dont despair. There was a time when I felt just like you do now, I used to think I will never healthy again, as for being able to enjoy my food? Forget it, like you said, all the foods I enjoyed eating were struck off the menu, bit by bit, depressing wasnt the word.
I started off with good old NHS dietary advice, my lovely dietitian took great care in devising a precise menu, 3 oz of this and 2 oz of that - it didnt work, I didnt lose weight nor did I manage to lower my blood sugar, despite stubbornly sticking to the diet and swalling a fistful of medication three times a day.
Eventually I started low carbing, I felt I had nothing to lose, food was not going to be pleasure anymore anyway. How wrong I was. I learnt to adapt recipes to make them low carb, yes they do taste a little different, but not terribly so.
To give you an example, on Friday I made a big pot of stew and dumplings, I used low carb vegetables with the meat, but no flour to thicken the gravy. At the end of cooking time I pureed some of the veg (use stick blender for that), added 1 teaspoon of guar gum (read the labels on supermarket food, its a very popular ingredient, natural too) and this thickened the sauce nicely.
The dumplings I made per usual recipe, I replaced the flour with almond flour and a little of freshly ground golden linseed, added a tablespoon of finely chopped parsley, - perfect.
Got the thumbs up from the family as well as daughters 2 schoolfriends who were staying for dinner.
For dessert they had a slice of low carb chocolate cake and low carb vanilla ice cream.
Breakfasts - if you are a ceral person, check out the thread Liz's Granola, or if a fry up is more of your thing, you could have eggs, bacon, sausage (read the label, high meat content have few carbs), mushroom and tomato, leave out the beans, I bake my own low carb bread but many members of this forum will tell you that they are fine with a couple of slices of Burgen bread so you could give this a try.
So you see, its possible to eat delicous food, its just a matter of being flexible and adapting, on top of it you will have the satisfaction of knowing that you are doing something very positive for your health,
Now I only told you here about low carbing, but it might not be your thing at all, so you might want to consider low GI instead.
I am sending you two links, Rick Gallop has written some very good books on this subject you can find recipe samples and more information online.
http://www.glycemicindex.com/
http://www.google.co.uk/#sclient=psy-ab ... 60&bih=616
Please dont feel resentful, it causes stress and that alone is enough to raise blood sugar. You can learn to be in charge of your diabetes and still enjoy your food.
If you feel that I can help you with anything, dont be afraid to say so.
All the best