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Hi All,
Slightly predictably, after a bit of a long saga with the NHS, much of which is recorded in 'ask experts' I have recently been diagnosed with 'Type 1' (well, 'LADA' as I'm in my 40s, but the consultant feels that tests suggest that I have virtually no insulin production left).
I have a couple of issues I'ld be very grateful for any comments on (I feel a bit of a 'user' here as I have asked a number of questions to date and people have been really helpful on the forum - I'll try and contribute somehow as well once I get my head around all this!).
1st issue: the consultant is recommending a combination of one shot of Lantus overnight, plus 4 shots of Novorapid to cover 'three meals a day'. I am a vegetarian and don't have '3 meals' I have a really busy work life and like to 'graze' (v. healthy very small meals lots of times a day). I find my food regime really keeps me in good condition (apart from the type 1 !!) There is no chance I could change to 3 meals a day - I wouldn't even be able to face them and the nature of my work prohibits taking the time out. Does anyone else have a 'grazing' lifestyle and if so, would the insulin regime suggested by the consultant work, or does anyone have any better suggestions?
2nd issue: My partner, who was originally very supportive when I first got ill, now seems to have lost the plot. His father was a T1 diabetic and recently died due to medical mismanagement of his diabetes during a hospital stay. As soon as the doctors said I was also 'T1/LADA' my partner just lost all sympathy and is now totally unsupportive (and angry), telling me I can't go on insulin and the stress of my disease is too much for him etc. and I should be able to sort it out some other way. I think the unfortunate timing of his father's death and my diagnosis has just been too much for him - has anyone else had a similar experience and are there any ways 'the partner' can be supported in this context - I am finding his reaction (although I understand it) stressful and it is making my decisions regarding treatment more difficult (nb. I asked him to come to the next consultant session with me but he won't , he just thinks, understandably, that the whole NHS is a waste of time and I should be looking to deal with this in a different way...but in what way is a bit of a mysetery!)
Thanks again for help and support
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Slightly predictably, after a bit of a long saga with the NHS, much of which is recorded in 'ask experts' I have recently been diagnosed with 'Type 1' (well, 'LADA' as I'm in my 40s, but the consultant feels that tests suggest that I have virtually no insulin production left).
I have a couple of issues I'ld be very grateful for any comments on (I feel a bit of a 'user' here as I have asked a number of questions to date and people have been really helpful on the forum - I'll try and contribute somehow as well once I get my head around all this!).
1st issue: the consultant is recommending a combination of one shot of Lantus overnight, plus 4 shots of Novorapid to cover 'three meals a day'. I am a vegetarian and don't have '3 meals' I have a really busy work life and like to 'graze' (v. healthy very small meals lots of times a day). I find my food regime really keeps me in good condition (apart from the type 1 !!) There is no chance I could change to 3 meals a day - I wouldn't even be able to face them and the nature of my work prohibits taking the time out. Does anyone else have a 'grazing' lifestyle and if so, would the insulin regime suggested by the consultant work, or does anyone have any better suggestions?
2nd issue: My partner, who was originally very supportive when I first got ill, now seems to have lost the plot. His father was a T1 diabetic and recently died due to medical mismanagement of his diabetes during a hospital stay. As soon as the doctors said I was also 'T1/LADA' my partner just lost all sympathy and is now totally unsupportive (and angry), telling me I can't go on insulin and the stress of my disease is too much for him etc. and I should be able to sort it out some other way. I think the unfortunate timing of his father's death and my diagnosis has just been too much for him - has anyone else had a similar experience and are there any ways 'the partner' can be supported in this context - I am finding his reaction (although I understand it) stressful and it is making my decisions regarding treatment more difficult (nb. I asked him to come to the next consultant session with me but he won't , he just thinks, understandably, that the whole NHS is a waste of time and I should be looking to deal with this in a different way...but in what way is a bit of a mysetery!)
Thanks again for help and support
:|