I from my own experience would say that in my earliest days I was a monster with hypo's if anybody tried to help me....argue and at one point at my worst had 3 paramedics and a gp -and lashed out at the gp today.
However, for my husband treating me the best thing we have in the house is a tommee tippee mug and as I love milk and sugar he used to pour milk n sugar in it and give it to me and because I love it so much and the cup is indestructable..that I just take it and drink like a baby....
The other thing is I only have hypo stoppers that I love to have in my bag or in my car. Currently maomi pinballs or dolly mixtures.
I cannot have jelly babies due to the jelly they are made of being unsuitable to my stomach.
If I love the hypo stoppers I take them a lot easier.
I haven't had a bad hypo for years now, but even treating my own low levels at home I automatically go for my tommee tippee.
However, the thing that I needed to explain to my hubby was the fact that when low I need cuddles and not to be left alone...it took me years to figure this out. He would get alarmed at my aggression and he dislikes any arguments or aggression at the best of times and when I was hypo aggressive he would watch me from another chair and say nothing because he didn't know what to say to me to calm me down. So instead he would go quiet and stay his distance....now he knows that a cwtch goes a long way to helping me, he would have no fear of doing it now and he won't mention the hypo word either. That used to antagonise the hell out of me. He learnt to say words like "its ok, in a few minutes you'll be ok, don't worry, keep drinking and would give me a cwtch.
Thankfully now I haven't needed any assistance for years. He doesn't even know I've had a hypo at night now...on a couple of occasions in 30 years I've been known to scream help me, help me running around the house naked at night!!! So a big difference.
Its still early days for your boyfriend but he may well be able to tell you what hypo stoppers he prefers to take which would make it easier for you if you just need to assist. It may be too early to say what he prefers you to do ie put sweets on a table and ask him if he would like to eat them rather than saying for example you're hypo... I think most t1's hate being hypo, hate the fact that we are being told we are hypo and need to eat etc... The mere mention of the hypo word to me used to mske me worse on the few occasions I needed help.
He will certainly feel awful afterwards if its out of his nature. I would be disgusted with myself. I hated the fact that I would disturb hubby sleep or his day....