Thanks for the interjections
@HSSS - saved me the effort...
Wow - I mean; that's really a great counter point to all the things I've been leaning into -
@CottonCutiePies, a lot of what you are no doubt trying to pass on in good faith - and I do appreciate the effort to help, and I also appreciate that your length of experience totally trumps mine, but a lot of it is just wrong... and more than that, the continued passing on and acceptance of some of this advice is part of the problem for a lot of people.
The science behind the understanding of the mechanisms driving Diabetes of both types is evolving all the time; when you were first diagnosed, the Glycocalyx hadn't even been discovered, and a big thrust of what I'm trying to deal with is that essentially, since lab insulin was developed, most treatment has devolved into a form of 'get the level of insulin right in order to get the blood glucose right' -
Prior to that - the very best medical advice was that it was so obvious that a severe dietary restriction was the only treatment for diabetes, that there was no point even doing a study to prove it.
Of course, the problem with that was that a small proportion of patients inconveniently just up and died. So, it's just as well that we can learn...
A lot of what you say may be good advice for type 1 - but fundamentally type 2 should be thought of as a hormone imbalance - you simply have more glucose in your body (cells of various types) that your natural mechanisms (insulin) are struggling to pack more in (all talk of resistance and not utilising insulin properly are essentially this, you can't pack a full cell with more glucose) - thus you have too much glucose and insulin in your blood - both of which are terrible for your endothelium, which drives all the long term health issues.
Lots of glucose all the time is very much not something the human species is evolved to deal with, and insulin, like all hormones, is supposed to be a short sharp shock, not a long term thing.
Any attempt to deal with Type 2 Diabetes, or pre-diabetes which doesn't start with trying to drive down your whole body glucose (in the form of stored fat of course) to allow your natural control mechanisms to deal with the situation in a normal fashion ... is just bad medicine in my albeit flawed opinion.
One thing that supports this is that almost all surgical interventions are very successful very quickly. I'm not for a second saying that therefore everyone should have a gastric band; that would be madness for lots of reasons - simply though - if Type 2 diabetes was really a question of something going wrong with 'insulin not working as it should' or that something is breaking down at the endothelial interface ... then there should be a large range in surgical outcomes, but generally speaking, the underlying glucose and insulin levels come back to normal in a day or two after surgery.
It's all really about reducing the amount of times we overwhelm our limited ability to deal with lots of carbs in our diet -
Also - from the perspective of a Type 1 patient, I'm sure it must seem that I'm 'rushing to find instant solutions' - I know, because I know as a type 1 you just cannot think that way - you have to accept and control. However - there are lots of things you can do for yourself as a type 2 - I just decided to bypass the medical advice I had been given, learn what the current best medical understanding was, and decided that I should be able to prove it to my GP within a month - which so far is going exactly as I predicted..
I actually think your son would benefit hugely from a little of this - I've done the hard diet and exercise thing too, and using a bit more metabolic understanding is so much better and a **** sight more fun and enjoyable - your statement on how starvation works is just so wrong on so many levels I don't know where to begin - again, thanks to HSSS for the fact I don't have to.
Please understand - I'm not making fun, it sounds like you've had a tough time. Many people have; but the advice we live by is part of the problem, we eat the wrong things in the wrong way, that has results which we feel bad about, and then get stuck in the diet and exercise loop of shame... meanwhile the Statin industry still makes $billions and we all buy too many ready meals... and eat too much because they don't make you feel full, and so it goes..
Couple of things to add...
The dawn phenomenon ... I do recall being told that there are some things we just don't understand... but it's no 'phenomenon' - it's very simple really.
I fast more or less every other day - so there are lots of mornings where I can be exercising having had nothing to eat for more than 36 hours. There is no dietary glucose in my system and my liver is by then empty of Glycogen - the short term storage version of Glucose.
Quite often, my blood glucose can go from 4.5 or so up to 9 or 10 - when I know for a fact that it's not coming from anything I've eaten...
It isn't a phenomenon, it's totally natural, and if it wasn't - ie, if we somehow really needed a sugary breakfast to get going - the species would have died out many thousands of years ago. It's a response to Cortisol, another hormone, driven by your Circadian Cycle and in fact the absence of a Cortisol raise in the morning is a fairly bad sign of overall poor metabolic (in the wider sense including sleep and mental wellbeing) health.
My Mother had T2D listed on her death certificate - but lower down, below Malignant Cushings syndrome. What this means in a nutshell, is that she was so angry all the time, that she pumped herself full of Cortisol until it killed her.
If your medical team talk to you about 'the dawn phenomenon' - what they are really saying is that their understanding is decades out of date.
It's been said far better than I can, but Type 1 and 2 are very different, and require very different mindsets. There is a significant danger in assuming that anything you 'know' applies to the other type - and I've spent about as much time diagnosed as Type 1 and Type 2.. I don't really know that this gives me a better insight - I do have a colleague who was late onset Type 1 from 20 or so, and has the same 30 year or so experience - he was invaluable to me coming to terms with being diagnosed Type 1, and has continued to be a great help as my diagnosis shifted - but one thing for sure, I've been very clear that all the stuff I've learned recently mainly applies only to Type 2 - with one fairly significant exception...
Even for type 1's - the key goal from the support team is typically to get your time in range up - so you're aiming for a 'steady' level of about 7 mmol/L of blood glucose, because at a population level that's best for reducing the risk of serious hypo events (totally meaningless for type 2 for the most part, though not totally, depending on meds) - but for long term health... that's still a lot of insulin and glucose to have in your blood, and there is very little attempt to reduce short term spikes, which are also not great - in other words, unless you make some effort to live in a way that reduces your need for insulin (which is all the same things for Type 2, lowering carbs means lowering need for insulin..) - your dosage will just keep slowly getting higher and higher, and even though your 'control of your diabetes' will be good, your long term health outlook will not.
Don't get bogged down by what's between the covers?
@CottonCutiePies - are you really saying - read books but don't actually pay attention to them?
No - again, I'm sure you mean this in good faith, and I also used to think that there was a lot of conflicting dietary advice, but seriously, just burying your head in the sand is not the way forward here...
You can very easily find the point in time where the guidelines changed - eat more carbs and less fat. It isn't conspiracy stuff, you can download the congressional report right here; almost all of the low-fat high-processed stuff can be traced back to that - and nearly all the conflicting advice since is an attempt to explain some effect or other in hindsight - the obsession over Omega-3 oils is one good example; when you understand the background to that, and what 'omega-3' really means.. it's all pretty laughable - I mean there was a point in time that the term 'Snake oil' became a negative - prior to that it was a way of selling something that sounded good, but was based on poor science...
If you really understand that most of the 'fat' in your body originates as saturated fat created in the liver from dietary carbs... most of the advice you get about low-fat diets high in polyunsaturated oils.. well, you see it all in a different light. Moderation, sure, but you can stop stressing about all the stuff you are supposed to feel guilty about, and by the way - when you eat fat, you feel full... and you stop eating; it's like magic... Maybe I should refer to that as 'the Leptin phenomenon'... and it might just catch on.
And please don't tell me that Statins reduce cholesterol - if you really think that, you are saying 'I have no idea what cholesterol is'
You need much more cholesterol, every day, than you can possibly eat - just to stay alive. Your liver creates more cholesterol than you eat.
Statins are very effective, but the effect they have is a little more complex, and based on fairly shaky science. Also as a woman, you do understand that a Low LDL level is actually very dangerous don't you - you were told that when you were prescribed statins, weren't you? That Statins are statistically best for men under 40 who have had a heart attack; that was properly explained?
The reason I was inspired to start this thread, is very much that my experience of being treated as type 1 and then realising that my diagnosis had changed, but also that big chunks of what I had been told could not be simultaneously be true - made me seriously question the advice I was being given, and that I better start taking responsibility for learning some basics about metabolism... Where I went from there has just shaken every piece of advice I had taken as gospel all my life - and I feel like I have a better, more cohesive view of the world of diets and eating, and cooking and buying food, than I ever have.
I very much do not feel like - "don't worry about it, if you put everything together it all washes out".... far from it.
However - I definitely suffer from a propensity to go on a bit...