Great post BFS........
This is what we here keep telling people .........it sn't ALL about Diabetes. There are many other things you should be looking after. Treat the body in a Holistic manner. Look after all it's parts. Heart, lungs, brain, limbs, other organs. Concentrate only on one thing and you are asking for trouble.
What you do in one area can have a massive effect on other parts of your body so you have to make sure that you keep a check on everything. Diabetes Bg levels, Blood Pressure, Eyesight, Feet etc.....the list goes on.
It isn't all about diet either as some seem to think, although a good diet can be beneficial in all areas. Trouble is a diet that is good for one thing.....can just as easily be bad for something else. My anti Cancer treatment diet was not good for my Diabetes, so the Diabetes had to take a 'back seat' while I got over that little hiccup ! So an overall Holistic approach is what we advocate. Ignore those other areas at your peril. Uncontrolled BP is just as lethal as uncontrolled Diabetes.
I am fortunate in that I have regular full body blood counts along with all the usual HbA1c, Cholesterol, BP and numerous other tests........that way I am never more than a couple of months away from knowing what might need some attention in certain areas of my body. A recent one picked up a Potassium deficiency, drug related. Now what was I presecribed to cure that..........a Banana a day, and plenty of Coffee........did that and result problem solved. Now you will hear that Banana's and Coffeee are bad for you ?? Well, it doesn't always work that way. As you say, everybody is different.
It's great that you are taking such an interest in your Diabetes......it's the only way to manage it. I'm impressed that you are going to such lengths. I just wish we could persuade some of our Diabetic friends to 'listen to the music' too. I have a couple that just will not listen to anything and rigidly follow the NHS 'dogma' about diet in particular. They are both well overweight, got all sorts of complications, generally feel dreadful most days and seem to have lost all hope of any improvement. It's a case of,
"I listen to what the Dr's tell me.........they know best !" Sometimes......I wonder......
Good luck with your endeavours.
Ken