Hi Mimi
Sorry to hear about your daughter...
Wow a pump so soon, in my eyes as a diabetic thats fantastic indeed, I love to see the day when at least children get a insulin pump from the word go, they are so more atapable than injections..
I know that it isn't easy getting your daughter used to injection (and that goes for you having to do them for her) but with the pump you change canulars every 2 to 3 days, dependant on what type of canular you use, so would actually cut down on the stress side of injecting several times a day...
The learning curve required to learn pumping at the moment would really but you straight back to square one as much as it will do later on so it's worth tackling...
Pumps are so much better and do provide a lot more flexibility to the diabetic regime, and children have such a dynamic life so with injections it very difficult to keep up with them, the pump will give a better chance of doing this as you can if she decides not to have tea and then dash around like a loon as kids frequantly do, you can turn the pump down to avoid a hypo... Something you can't do once you've injected a insulin dose..
Me if I was in your position I would grab the chance and go for it..
A good book to get is Pumping Insulin by John Walsh, can be ordered via amozone... It know as the pumpers bible with a wealth of information about control etc, and easy to referance..
Also google, insulin-pumpers, join the mailing list as there is a childrens pump group, if you post one of the mums will pick it up, and give you the information you need to join the childrens list...