The purpose of a line, or cut off point, is so that boxes can be ticked and people categorised. The aim of a line is, or at least should be, the point at which a significant proportion of people begin to get some sort of problem starting to occur. In different countries and at different times, the line has been in different places - it's a matter of opinion, not a god given truth.
Concerning your GP's witty suggestion of having the Metformin waiting for you, remember, many people do not manage to sustain weight loss or exercise regimes and doctors and diabetic nurses have a mind set, perhaps not surprisingly, that diabetes is a progressive condition.
Don't lose heart, keep up the good work and, like many others, whose stories I've read on this and other sites, prove them wrong!
Sally.