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Hi, my husband has recently been diagnosed with type 1 at the age of 42. This means a complete lifestyle change and having to deal with needles, testing and trying to understand what the hell the doctors tell you to do. He was just given 2 pens and told to get on with it! Unfortunately and with good reason, my husband if finding it really hard to cope. He struggles to manage his levels because he won't test regularly, he doesn't eat 3 meals a day to sustain his levels and what he does eat is a load of ****!! He spends most evenings lately hyperglycaemic and this makes him aggressive and hard to be around as he just wants to pick an argument. He will go off in our car ( which I desperately try to stop but get screamed at) and I won't be able to contact him to find out where he is and if he is safe. He will return late, say he has been asleep and doesn't remember why he has left. I explain how he has behaved and potentially why and he tells me to shut up, I'm not a nurse and have no idea what he is going through. I know this is not all his fault as he is scared so I want to hear how people may deal with this and if anyone thinks him meeting other adults may help. Unfortunately there doesn't seem to be much out there for newly diagnosed type 1 adult diabetics to learn how to deal with it nor for the people who care for them.
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