The old paradigm was that non-diabetics would never spike higher than 7.8 then come down to baseline rapidly.
The onset of CGMs has radically changed this belief & there seems to more of a concensus that we fall into a range of glucotypes.
(1) Those who show a flatline response to carbs i.e. your husband.
(2) Those who rise to the expected 7.8 then fall back down.
(3) Those who can spike then rapidly return to normal i.e. your own experience
A good study on the above can ge read here:
https://journals.plos.org/plosbiology/article?id=10.1371/journal.pbio.2005143
With your HbA1c being so normal you have very little to worry about.
Chances are you were always thus but before GD you probably never pricked your finger.