Thanks grace, for the longest time people said "omg you have put on weight" before they said hello to me. I went from size 6 to size 18 very quickly 6 months, the dns nurse explained diabetes can cause weight gain, so when the negative vibes were coming my way about the weight gain, and I was being told I have diabetes because I'm greedy and didn't know when to stop eating, I learned to stop listening and work on the facts as I know it, and change my diet and ignored the negative people, I learned a ego is a very good thing if's big enough and a cute dress to slim into is even better and control of my diabetes priceless..